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mrslee97658 posted:
I really doubt that I am going to get pregnant this month which is ok. Dh seems to be a little mad about it like I don't want to get preggo at all. I just think that either I'm not ovulating or if I was then we missed the "window". I am not really tracking ovulation or anything but DH seems to bring it up like we are TTC right now. Yeah I know I am off of my pills but I told him I didn't want to make it a job and now it seems as if he thinks I am not living up to my duties per say.....We will have to wait and see but I am really expecting my period next month and nothing more so I would be surprised if it does happen, thanks for letting me get out my frustrations.
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BabyLovesPrada responded:
I am so sorry you are going through that. (((HUGS))) I doubt I am preg too but atleast DH is not acting mad about it. Feel Free to vent!!! I am here to listen!
 
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mrslee97658 replied to BabyLovesPrada's response:
Thanks Lyndee, he seems to not be so mad anymore, I think it was just a in the moment thing kwim? I was just leary about getting off of my pills in the first place because I thought we we waiting until Feb. and its taking a little getting used to for me. I am a constant worrier but I know God will take care of us.
 
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BabyLovesPrada replied to mrslee97658's response:
Hi Hun, I was hoping it was more disapointment than anger, have you told him that you are not doing anything to sabatoge a pregnancy but just because you are off BC does not mean that you will get KU right away?
 
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mrslee97658 replied to BabyLovesPrada's response:
Yeah I think he was just disappointed, he knows that I won't get KU right away but I think in his mind he has "super" sperm or something. Yes I told him that I am proly not ovulating yet and it seemed to make him less "mad" about it. He said something to the tune of " its really hard to get preggo if we aren't having sex" and then I said something like,"oh well there's always next month" and he says" you don't even care" I really think he was just mad we weren't dtd at the time and he hasn't said anything else about it so I believe we are ok.
 
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BabyLovesPrada replied to mrslee97658's response:
Tough situation. but if you think your ok, then I am good with that.

Obviously didnt happen for me this month either, so we are still in the same boat LOL.

I am so tired we stayed up until 1:00 watching Rescue Me (season premier, DH worked till 10:30 and missed the 10:00 airing and usually they reshow it at 11, but for some reason, this time they did not
 
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mrslee97658 replied to BabyLovesPrada's response:
Well I won't get my AF until July 13th so there is still hope but like I said I doubt I will be preggo. The other times I have been preggo off the pill went like this: my oldest KU right away didn't get AF for that month, Brandon off pill in April KU in June, preggo that I MC off pill in April found out I was preggo in Sept lost it 10 days later, then with Kobie I called the DR to see when we could start trying again she said we could that day and never got my period after the MC. So I would say its possible but I doubt it cuz we really didn't dtd in my "fertile" period.
That sux I was up late for the past few nights and haven't been able to sleep at all. I think its because I was drinking too much Iced Tea lol....I am not switching to decaf until I am preggo though cuz I love caffeine!!! That's my only bad habit though.
 
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stephs_3_kidz replied to mrslee97658's response:
How much do you know about ovulation and getting pregnant?

You have 4 children now? Did you track any of those cycles in order to get pregnant?

If you are due to get your period July 13 and if you have a "normal" cycle, then at the time you originally posted this you would have still been within your ovulation time frame.

I know you don't want to make it a "job" per say but tracking your O and making sure you have sex within a certain time frame isn't really making it into a "job", it's just something that needs to be done realistically in order to get pregnant (for most people that is).
 
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BabyLovesPrada replied to stephs_3_kidz's response:
Good Points Steph!
 
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ImMe26 replied to BabyLovesPrada's response:
Just sounds like he threw a fit over sex and not having it...if my SO acted like that id be frustrated too...but it seems he was just acting out kinda for that moment...
 
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mrslee97658 replied to stephs_3_kidz's response:
I still doubt that I was O though because I just stopped the pill last month. And no with my other children I didn't track it, with my first 2 they were "oops" babies, and the other 2 we just dtd as much as possible but I got preggo with #4 as soon as we tried after my MC so yeah I know I should know this stuff after 4 kids but I still don't lol....
 
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stephs_3_kidz replied to mrslee97658's response:
You CAN still O right after stopping the pill..I have a surprise #4 to prove it--USING condoms!

I was on Yaz and it was causing me to feel nuts so my OB advised me to stop taking it. I took my last pill September 28 and got pregnant before I ever even had a full cycle off the pill.

We were using condoms in the meantime but I still ended up pregnant.
 
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mrslee97658 replied to stephs_3_kidz's response:
Oh wow I didn't know that. So we will just have to wait and see....at least it wouldn't be a shock since we are trying for #5. I hated the pill anyway it made my boobs hurt for 2 weeks before my period and it was almost like I was preggo every month , and I also had too much breakthrough bleeding every month.
 
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stephs_3_kidz replied to mrslee97658's response:
This was the first month I've ever had sore boobs from the pill. They hurt like when I was pregnant with my first, tingly, hot, sore, prickly...

The side effects seem to be worse and worse on me the longer I take it. I'm getting ready to start a new pack on Sunday and really don't want to, but I just can't risk getting pregnant again. I see my OB in Aug. or September again so I think I'm going to make some changes.
 
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jlbelknap35 replied to stephs_3_kidz's response:
Yup you can definatly get preggo first month off the pill. My son proved that. but that sucks your husband is being a butthead about the TTCing. i agree it does sound like he is more mad about the sex part. he probly expected to have sex constently to TTC rather than still an every now and then.


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