Welcome to the board. I'm sorry that your husband's diagnosis brings you here, but glad that you found us.
Even though it's a devastating diagnosis, it must help quite a bit that your husband has a sense of humor about it.
I think that getting an Alzheimer's patient to eat a healthy diet is often a challenge, because they tend to lose their senses of smell and taste. A lot of people with Alzheimer's -- my late uncle included -- go overboard with sweets because sugar tends to be something they can still taste after other tastes have become dulled. Salt may be the same, so maybe more herbs and spices would make a difference.
There are some books about sneaky ways of getting vegetables into children's food -- maybe one of those would be helpful. This is the one that leaps to mind, because I remember hearing that Jerry Seinfeld's wife had written a
book with sneaky recipes.
My husband and I don't always eat enough vegetables, and I find that spinach is a great way to add them to a a lot of different things -- I use spinach instead of lettuce on sandwiches, and tear up spinach, saute it and add it to pasta, rice, cheese grits, polenta, even scrambled eggs. It's hardly noticeable in those dishes. I also sometimes use mashed avocado (I know it's not a vegetable, but they have healthy fat) on sandwiches instead of mayonnaise. Would your husband eat vegetables with some sort of healthy dip, like hummus?
I don't know what affect coconut oil has on triglycerides, but maybe it's one of those things where the benefits outweigh the risks. I think we'd all be interested in what your doctor says.
Here are some
general tips on Alzheimer's patients and eating.
You may know about the Alzheimer's office in Chico but, if not, here's the info:
Greater North Valley Office
2105 Forest Avenue, Suite 130
Chico, CA 95928
Link to Google Map Phone: 530.895.9661
I tried to see if they had any support groups, but it was very difficult to try to find that info -- a phone call would probably be easier.
I hope you'll continue to post here. The board isn't always very active, but someone will usually respond to you within a day or so.
Best wishes to you and your husband.
Carol