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    cristy06 posted:
    Last week my mother was diagnosed with Dementia and was placed on Aricept for it. She since has been getting upset and quiet mean of the evenings and night. She has been seeing and hearing things, were spending each day with her to make sure she is taken care of, but I don't know what would cause these fits at night, she has never had them before the med"s. I will take any advice, I am just worried to death. This is the hardest thing I have ever delt with, watching my hero slowly leave, tearing my heart out a little more each day.
    davedsel2 responded:
    Hello and welcome. I am sorry your family is going through this and fully understand.

    First, learn all you can about this diseases. WebMD has an excellent Alzheimer's Disease Health Center here:

    Another good source for information and support is the Alzheimer's Association. Here is a link to their site:

    Love and patience are an important part of caring for a family member with Alzheimer's. Your mother should no longer live alone, so you need to start thinking of options that are best for her and your family. In the beginning and through the moderate phases you would be able to care for her yourself with help from some aides, etc. There are also excellent assisted living facilities and memory care facilities geared for caring for these patients full-time.

    Your or another family member(s) should contract an elder attorney to create a Power Of Attorney so you can manage her finances, and a Health Care Proxy so you can make sure she gets whatever medical care she needs.

    This is a difficult process and experience but not impossible. There are these resources I mentioned and others that can help you help you mom get all that she needs.

    I will be praying for you, your mom and family as you embark on this journey. Please keep us updated and feel free to ask any more questions or just vent. We understand.
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    Judith L London, PhD responded:
    H cristy06,

    Sorry for the delay in responding. Your mother may be having a reaction to Aricept, so I hope you have discussed this with her doctor so that a mother medications can be considered.

    Also, what is causing the dementia? Is it Alzheimer's, Lewy body or vascular dementia? This is important for the best treatment approach.

    Hope you have some answers,

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