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I am super embarrassed by my blushing problem. Before it was kinda cute and now its out of control. I blush so often that Ive begun to exclude myself from situations that require me to communicate with people in the simplest conversations. Even my job has begun to suffer from my blushing problem. Ive stopped conversing with people who I might blush in front of, sometimes I just dont talk period. This is really an issue because almost a year ago I was perfectly fine, I had tons of friends, boyfriends...I was working a great job interacting with people and now all those things seem to have disappeared as my blushing got worse. For example I used to love to flirt with attractive guys that would come in to my work and flirt with me, now if I see an attractive guy I can't look him in the eye, I can't even speak to him without my face, my ears, my neck...my entire head just burning from the blushing. Its so incredibly embarrasing that now my life is suffering from this condition. Here's a few more examples of the problems its causing in my life: when i speak to even my family i start blushing then i start fidgeting and i get embarrassed that Im blushing so I get up and walk around and i cant look them in the face and then i look really stupid or like im lieing when im not, when a hot guy comes in and makes a flirtatious comment to me I turn red and my face gets hot i cant look at him i just look down and i get really flustered and make a fool of myself and I never ever used to do that i could easily make a comment back no problem, i cant speak to coworkers without turning red, i cant speak to friends without turning red, if i get confronted for any reason like for a work correction or a displeased client i turn red and my heart pounds...its caused such a problem that sometimes I would rather stay home and be bored than go out and humiliate myself by blushing so bad that i look like an ass. Its the only thing that I hate about myself. Im not sure what it is exactly that causes it, and thats what im trying to figure out so i can discover how to stop it and live my life normally as i had no less than 9 months before. I know im not depressed because even despite my condition im an extremely happy person...but i think i may have anxiety because sometimes my heart pounds alot when i turn red, and once i was talking to someone and i turned all hot and red, and my heart was pounding and i was shaking like i had too much caffeine. It was intense. I just want this to stop, Im not sure what to do but its ruining my life...every aspect of it and Im at my wits end already and Im so desperate to have some normalcy back in my life...please someone help me!!!!!!!!!!!
Sincerely Desperate,
Kamryn Taylor-Reed 
guess my recommendation would be to simply keep talking through the blushing...in other words, you're in a situaiton where you start to blush...my thought is that if you *kept* talking, the blush would fade away in 60 or 70 seconds. Its like starting to cry at a work meeting...if you can talk through it for a couple of minutes, it tends to dissapate.
I have just started to try a pill (eredicane) for it because it is just way out of control. I even purchased a cd I listen to on my way to work.
I just do not understand, I blush in front of everyone. My family, friends, social situations.
Please send me your email address mine is piratesrule@comcast.net. maybe we can help each other.
I hope this help and best wishes!
I really hope this helps you and that you find a problem to this strangely debilitating condition.



I could have written the same exact post (except for the hot guys part) because I had the exact problem ? getting embarrassed and my face turning red in the most normal situations and/or conversations. Then, when you feel yourself turning red, it just compounds the problem so you get redder, and so on and so on. You (we) have what?s called social anxiety disorder or generalized anxiety disorder. You can read about it on WebMD. Several years ago I went to a Psychologist and did the whole ?behavioral therapy? because I didn?t want to take medication. Trust me; it?s a waste of time. You can?t treat it like letting someone hold a snake who has a phobia about snakes. After putting up with it for years, I finally went to a Psychiatrist last year, who prescribed Effexor XR, which you usually hear being prescribed for depression but they have found that it also works on generalized anxiety disorder. It changed my life in less than a week. The only way I can describe the effects is - in the usual situation that you know you would start to turn red, it would only last about ? second and a degree of 1 on a scale of 1-10. There have been some times, but very few situations, where the redness was stronger or lasted longer but never to the degree as before. Additionally, the medication makes you have an attitude of ? ?oh well, no big deal? when those very few situations do come up. So make an appointment with a Psychiatrist, because only they can prescribe medication, and talk with them about getting on some medication for your symptoms. The only thing that sucks about it is that you feel like you?ll have to take medication for the rest of your life but it?s better than living without it too!
Hope this helps
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