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sunflower1943 posted:
Am posting a 2nd time - what happened to first post I do not know - we were invited to a 65th birthday party - my brother-in-law and sister-in-law's house - 5 hours from here.

For many years they have treated me bad and ignore me every time there is a social function. I told my husband I am not going - he said we are. I told him no - you go - I stay home.

He is now thinking about calling his sister to ask her what the problem is - this has been festering for many years and he's tired of. To my knowledge I have said or done nothing intentionally.

What advice would you give me - I hope this is not deleted again from the discussion board. I Need Advice and Seeking It Here - it is causing me great anxiety. Thank you.
Patricia Farrell, PhD responded:
I think it needs to be cleared up and the only way that's going to happen is for all of you to sit down to discuss it. No reason to remain in this state of limbo.