HI pinkpuffer,
Most primary care providers don't know how to treat asthma. My PCP is really good for a PCP, but he now refuses to treat my lungs unless there is an infection. He will only treat the infection. It depends on what part of the country you are in as to how equipped PCPs are to treat allergies and asthma. Here, they see a lot of it and are pretty well trained on the basics.
The biggest problem I see with your PCP is that he isn't willing to work as a team member with the specialist for your best care. Here is the way I see the relationships working. It is very similar to a sports team with the head coach, and specialist coaches like defense, offense, pitching, batting, first base ...for baseball, quarterack, offensive line, kicking... for football, You and your PCP act as the coach and team manager making sure that all possibilities are covered and that there are no problems with drug interactions. The PCP should always defer to the opinion of the specialist when there are no conflicts just like a head coach defers to the opinion of his supporting specialty coaches for a sports team. The head coach/PCP looks at the big picture.
Unless you can talk with your PCP and convince him to be a part of the "team", you should probably be looking for a new head coach (PCP).
My two cents,
Take care and
God bless,
Sonya
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