Back Pain Community

I said I would give it my all to get my kids through school. My oldest duaghter just got accepted to UNR. Her little sister is 25 months younger. Both are honer roll students with 4.0 to 4.5 GPAs

While my wife is done with my I can look in the mirror and be proud. I've done my best for my wife, but I'm not good enough for her so she keeps saying she wants a divorce. She kept pushing my buttons to get me to fight to make me look bad, now I just don't talk. I did tell her that if I cry because my heart is broken you call me a whimp, if I yell at you you call me a jerk, if I talk you call my a lier.

So. If I go on disiability after the new year my family remains insured for two years. If she divorces me I dont no what happens to her, she has diabietes and that scares me. The kids will likely be able to get insurance through college ( Oboma care) and I will try to help my wife even if she does hate me. I promised to death do us part...divorce is irrelivent. I keep my word
I have private dissability that pays 70% of my gross pay, but it's tax free. With little taxeble income the girls woud likel qualify for more scholarships.

I am proud of who I am and what I have done

I've told all three of them I will never turn my back on them and I will back them with every thing I can.

My eldest with the 4.5 wants to major in math and minor in education to become a math teacher. Shes in AP calculus in high school and has been through AP Physics, AP intergers, AP englishm AP psycology and so on. She also has a national championship title on her horse in equestrian performance.

The youngest is on varstity soccer as a sophemore and is trying out for varsity baskitball.

Good kids and I'm proud of them. I could never turn my back on them.

I've been working 50 hours a week and my doc said no more that 20. I think I will take the disability route. That should give me more life with my kids.

I hope my wife can resoncile with me, but I really love my daughters.
If I go on disabillity my taxable incone 0r net income will be almost nothing so they should get better scholarshhips.

My youngest daughter has a bond with me that makes me feel wonderful
My eldest is almost 18 and we have wonderful talks. She and I have a duffrent bond.

I am proud about what I've done. My love for my girls is paramount. They're good girls. my eldest wants to major in math and minor in secondary education.

Anyway, I want to take disabillity so maybe I'll live long enough to bounce a grand kid on my knee and see my girl with a BS or maybe a masters?

So those of us in chronic pain need to teach our kids a code to live by. Remember love is like suger and hate is like viniger