Hi Brenda,
I am here on and off as time permits and yes, I have had what I believe is successful surgery.
About 5 years ago I woke up with a familiar pain in the butt (which I had bounded back from several times previously) and a few days later the pain was so bad I could barely walk and it was radiating into my right leg. I went to the doc and after the usual predisone pack, anti inflamitories and vicodin for a few days it was worse than ever. I was sent for an mri and straight to the hospital because I had ruptured 2 discs between L3- L5 so badly you couldn't tell where one ended and the other began. I had a laminectomy and discectomy on two levels and cried when I came out of surgery because it felt so good to be pain free.
About three months later I was sitting down to put on my shoes, bent over to pick up my shoes and felt like someone put a knife in my back. Back to the surgeon and after additional xrays and mri determined I had 3 additional ruptures. We discussed more conservative options but knew I would only be delaying the inevitable. I had L3-S1 fused in October 2007.
I have always lived life at 100 mph and typical for me, went back to work 6 weeks later. I overdid everything and found myself in major pain by the holidays. I struggled with the pain issues and finally about a year out found myself pretty much pain free.
I walk for exercise, drive a sports car which is too low to the ground, and I sit on my butt all day at work....everything your doctor would rather you not do. I can pick up my dog who weighs about #20 and we go to the water park a couple of times in the summer. Oh and I schlep a stuffed briefcase every where I go....and when I get home some days I get out the ibuprofin. I work full time in a sales position, am in grad school and do some volunteer work. Have we talked about stress?
I am now 51 and there are days I wonder why I do what I do to myself and I also understand there may be a day when I cannot keep up this pace. But until then I am grateful for a very talented surgeon and for the strength to keep going. I do have some nerve damage, I have little feeling in the toes of my left foot and little feeling in my right foot and the front of my right shin. So far this hasn't held me back but I do find some nights my feet are more "annoyed" than others.
I made many choices on blind faith. I did not find this site until after the second surgery and was in pain. There are many people who have had successful surgeries but if you are considering surgery, ask lots of questions, ask about risks, options and what if's. You can never go back. And either write down the answer or take someone with you to listen. If you do not feel good about who you are taking to, leave and find someone else if possible.
I don't think I have ever written so much in one post. But like any other endeavor you must understand what you are doing, the risks and possible rewards and weigh the options. I did not go through many of the more conservative treatments because the first time I saw the doctor, the disk rupture was so bad, there was no option other than surgery.
Keep doing research and asking questions. There many questions I do not chime in on because I have not struggled with treatments for years as some of the members here have.
I wish you the best
di