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    Do you have Borderline Personality Disorder? This new Exchange has been developed so we can encourage each other, share tips to get through those down days, and/or just vent.
    An_252275 posted:
    fell like im going nuts. i seperated fro my husband 2months ago. i thought it was what i wanted, we have been having sex and seeing more of eachother now im so confused, y mom, whom im staying with, found out and now she's giving me a hard time and told me that my father agrees with her about if i sleep with him i need to just get back with him. i dont think he wants me anymore so now i feel like im gonna have a mental breakdown the only thing kepping me together is being at work right now. before i left him i was gonna check myself in now im thinking it might be the best thing to get my head straight. please help???
    sittingbull594 responded:
    If you're married then you're old enough to make your own decisions and don't need to have the approval of your parents.
    Do you have your own councelor? That is where I would start. I don't know nor do any of us the scope of this issue???

    You left him 2 mos. ago... Was there a reason why you left him?

    I kinda gather your staying with your folks??? if so then they do have a right to voice their opinion however, that still doesn't mean you have to do what they want you to do.

    I hope you will talk to a councelor and learn what you can do to make you're life and hopefully the marriage better. If you cannot keep yourself safe and are suicidal please call a suicide prevention line. This community is not very active.

    If at all cost please call 911 if you cannot keep yourself safe.

    I know it's really hard ....Hang tough! sending you good vibes
    May God walk before you. b.e.f.

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