Welcome.
It seems you are to be congratulated both for being a survivor and for devoting your life now to this area of healing!
As you have undoubtedly learned first-hand, support is the most helpful gift one can extend. Knowing you are not alone when everything seems to indicate otherwise, is the candle flicker that keeps you going!
In this community (and in the main BC community) we make every effort we can to supply that and more to our members. We escort them to their appointments, treatments and surgeries via the Pink Bus (aka "Pinkie"). We go to the Candle Site and light candles for each other. We often make use of the "Warrior Stone" which is embued with the collective courage and strength of all members...This stone we hold close when times are especially troubling. All this is adjunct therapy to the advice, experience, prayers, soft-shoulders, etc. we supply in our posts.
Combine all that with private emails, phone calls, face-to-face meets, and yoiu have one very active and giving group. (Please note that, tho' the majority of the community is ladies, it is not uncommon for us to have gentlemen as well,. Often they are the "good guys" supporting their loved ones. Other times, tho' uncommon, we have men facing this same beast of breast cancer.)
If you'd like a bit more information on some of these "support devices," please go to the main Breast Care Community, and look at the right side of the page where the "Tips" are listed...There you will find more detailed descriptions of each.
Incidentally, I am the primary "driver" of the Pink Bus. I've been active in the community since my diagnosis in 2003.
Hope this helps.
blessings.
Rachael
Just when the caterpillar thought her world was over, she became a butterfly!
Don't give up five minutes before the miracle!!