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lost a baby at 9 weeks 3 weeks ago
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An_187302 posted:
lost a baby 3 weeks ago i was about 9 weeks and one day i just started spottong thatwas off and on for 3 days and then late on the 4th day i started bleeding sverely and had horrable cramps.... i was heartbroken, i have had 12 pregancies one still born 2 live births and 9 misscariages.. is there something wrong with my should i just give up on trying for more kids, this loss has hurt more then ay of the others and i cry everyday.. my fiancee finnally admited the other day that it hurts him to and that he was looking forward to having a child that was ours, but for the longest time her just told me it didnt bother him it just hurt him to see me hurt so bad... i feel so guilty that i cant give him the child he wants and sometimes wonder y he even wants to stay with me if i cant give him a child thats biologically his... what do i do??
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