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This is going to be kind of a long story, but here it goes. The is the guy that my husband and i used to know. We stopped hanging out with him about 2 years ago because he is very creepy. Now i have received an e-mail from him and it sounds like he is blackmailing me. He states that he has a picture of me with someone that is not my husband. The thing is, i have NO idea what he is talking about or what this picture has in it. My husband and i have been together since i was 14. I am now 22. The last time i was with any one other then my husband was when we were split up when i was 17. And even then, there was no sex, just kissing and having fun being a teenager. But i never told my husband about any of that. It was just kinda swept under the rug when we got back together months later. And for this guy having a picture, like i said, i have no idea what he is talking about. And i know that the only time i have not been with my husband is when we were not together. But i am afraid that if he knows, it might break his heart. And i am in love with my husband and i dont want to hurt him at all. Now the question is as follows. Should i talk to my husband and tell him what is going on? Or should i call this others guy bluff? Because as of right now i am physically ill over this situation. I cannot eat, i am shaking and i am feeling very depressed. I dont want to hurt my husband, but i also would not want him to find out because of some sick creppy person. HELP
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