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    Dating a bad kisser
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    Anon_5745 posted:
    I have been seeing this guy for a couple weeks. I like him and he seems smitten over me. He was married a long time and just recently started dating. Well he kissed me on our 3rd date and slowly things have gone downhill and I'm seeing my interest wane a little bit. I love kissing and there's nothing sexier than a great kisser. He gave me a kiss at a bar, and just stuck his tongue in my mouth. That is not how you do it and I certainly don't use my tongue in public generally. I've tried to coach him and he has gotten better bit still not there. I do not want to hurt his feelings but already concerned about any sex we have as my experience has been bad kissers are normally bad in the bedroom. Is this fixable? how do I tell him the kissing is a turn off?
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    stevesmw responded:
    You really don't know if he is a bad kisser or not. He definitely has boundary issues; physical space and personal space.

    This should be explained to him and if he doesn't respond appropriately, that's another red flag.

    Dating can be uncomfortable and either he is out of practice or clueless.
     
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    Anon_5745 responded:
    Sorry it took so long for me to reply back. I've kissed many men. He is a bad kisser but I broke it off with him this weekend anyways. I was a super nice guy and good looking, I simply was not turned on by him. I did not want to let this go on any more.


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