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When the dr called back tonight to confirm there wasn't a heartbeat or any signs of the baby he said my dr (dr I talked to this weekend was the on call dr) would be calling right away to get me in for a D&C on Monday. As many of you have probably gathered, I don't like to jump (or stroll) into ANYTHING and I'm kinda freaking out about what issues being on remicade or just having crohns might throw into the mix. I guess my first thought is, since my ileum seems to be scarred, does that make it more likely to get scarring from the D&C? then, I think I've read that people have to go off remicade before surgery, am I making this up? do I have to worry about infection more?
Ug, thanks for letting me talk this out, just trying to wrap my head around all this before he calls since I don't tend to think quickly enough when I'm talking to the dr...
if anyone has any thoughts or questions I should ask that'd be helpful, if not (I know its not a common situation - or I hope not...) thanks for listening, no one really knew I was pregnant - bonus for not having to tell everyone, but now anyone I want to tell has to hear bad news. Plus I have NO idea who will drive me to the dr for this since my husband is out of town for work all week... At least I found out before he left... would have been an extra crappy day if I was alone
You are right about being off of the Remicade for a while before surgery (usually 4-6 weeks), but if the benefits outweigh the risks, they will go ahead and do it. I'm sure that there are other precautions that they will use....like, extra antibiotics and such. I think postponing the D & C for that long would be a greater risk at this point. (But that is just my thought, I have never had to go through it so I don't know all that is involved.) Wish I had some concrete answers for you; you must be so scared.
I will continue to pray for you and know that I will be thinking of you and your family.
Big, huge HUGS!
Mindy
There will be an increased risk of infection, but if your doctors are aware that you're on Remicade, they should be ready to deal with that. I'd advise to go ahead with the procedure and just keep an eye out for fevers, changes in urination, headaches... Anything that could indicate an infection.
Again, I am so sorry for you. I was really hoping it would work out, and I'm just... So sorry.
I'm hoping the dr will call tonight so I can figure out what to tell my boss about my plans for next week. When ever he does call, I'm going to try to find out if the rush is for the emotional aspect or medical and I'll remind him I just got remicade 18 days ago. It sounds like there is a medicine that they can give you too, I'd def want hubby there for that one, but if it could wait for next week that might be less risk.
I know my friend's dr had her wait it out and it was months, I'm certainly glad he's not suggesting that.
thanks again for all the love guys, its really nice to have you all here
As far as the D&C goes, my mother had to have one a few years ago and it was outpatient. I would think that because you just recently had a remicade treatment they would take that into account and put you on strong antibiotics to prevent infection, as well as give you specific instructions as to signs of infection so you can catch it early to prevent any complications.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you don't let this deter you from trying again.
Sarah
(swvagirl)
Please keep us updated as much as you can. We all love you and wish the best for you, and I, for one, certainly worry about you. Very curious how you're holding up.


I went to the store to get comfort food and whatnot and there was a woman with a newborn - seriously cruel (obviously not her, just in general)
but other than that and being frustrated initially by the dr office I'm hanging in there. It sucks but it seems to hit me in waves, so right now I'm just sitting on the couch watching tv
Remicade is such a junky drug.
I do have to say - one tiny silver-like lining - a lot of people online talked about being freaked out about the general anesthesia, but thanks to all the scopings from Crohn's at least I had no worries about that
they did push an advil like drug to help with pain, guess I wish I would have known to ask them to just use tylenol to be sure it didn't make the symptoms worse that I've been having but the concern is probably minimal compared to the antibiotics anyway
I'm not suppose to drive till tomorrow afternoon, I guess if I'm still feeling ok I'll try to go back to work in the afternoon (I can work at home if not).
one other tiny advantage of everyone knowing I have crohn's: its a good cover. I'll just tell everyone that I was "feeling really crappy" - no one asks questions when they think there's diarrhea involved

it does really suck that I have to throw in all the crohn's concerns into the pregnancy concerns and now the grief and the medical decisions. I guess I'm just hoping that I'll be like my friend who had a missed mc w her first pregnancy but has gone on to have 3 boys since.
thanks for all the thoughts and prayers everyone
jodi
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