Hi Jaime, congratulations on your pregnancy!
When I was pregnant, I was on Humira. My GI was like yours and said that it was safe to be on the med and more dangerous to have a flare. Against medical advice, I went off Humira during pregnancy. I felt that the med was too untested and the potential side-effects too great for me to risk it. Likewise, I did not take it during the few weeks I was able to breast feed. I did feel well during my pregnancy and was able to eat a very healthy diet and was able to gain the appropriate amount of weight (which I was worried about). My baby girl was and continues to be healthy!
After she was born, I did have a recurrence of abcess/fistula and had a colostomy when she was 3mos old. I haven't been able to achieve remission after pregnancy. A theory is that I lost responsiveness to the med because I went off it while pregnant. Now, I've tried Cimzia, but as it works similarly to Humira, it is not effective either. I'm stuck in a little conundrum of what to do med-wise as there aren't a lot of options.
Jamie, you are facing a big decision. The best you can do is get all the information you can from your doctors (#1) and health-care professionals, and hear others' experiences. Ultimately you have to make your own informed decision, for you will have to potentially live with consequences either way. I would never change what I did, though I do have some very serious consequences. But then I have a friend that stayed on her Humira until the last 2mos, had a healthy baby and had just a slight flare after pregnancy. Every reason, choice and result will be as unique as we are.
I wish you the best in your pregnancy and you are going to be a great mom! Enjoy this very special time in your life!
Laura