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Would you spend this much money to save your pet?
Where would you draw the line?
I'm still sad about her death but I'm also glad to say she died in her sleep, without having to be put down. Would I do anything differently? No. But do I think these people went overboard? Again, no. In a way my choice was much easier.
This went on for a few weeks, and every time I talked to the vets, I asked if it was time to have him put down; they always said that there was a good possibility the next treatment would do the trick. I was so angry and devastated when one of the vets -- the one who owned the practice -- finally asked me why I was putting my dog through all that when he obviously wasn't going to get better. I told him that I had questioned that all along, but had followed the recommendations of the other vets to keep trying treatments.
It was a terrible lesson, and I hate that my poor dog's last few weeks consisted of hospitalizations, IV's, injections, trips to the vet and increasing weakness and discomfort. I would never, ever put another dog through all that. If there was a guarantee that an expensive treatment would cure my dog (assuming he wasn't too old), I'd probably do it; otherwise, I would do the humane thing and just let him go.
Lupylisa
We have been blessed in that we have the finances to spend on our cats' care, and we have spent (tens of) thousands over the last 24 years. Sometimes it has worked out wonderfully, and other times we have had to make the decision to euthanize. Every case is different and depends on the family situation, the personality of the pet, and the likelihood of a good outcome. And of course having having a good relationship with a veterinarian you know will give you the options and possible outcomes openly and honestly makes a huge difference.
My condolences to all of you who have lost a pet. I can only restate what a friend once said to me: "just remember the good times and forget about the end."
The surgery was a success but he had no quality of life until the day he died, which was about 6-8wks later. He'd been on all kinds of meds, I was trying to syringe feed him, he developed thrush(poor thing) and on his last day he wound up having seizures and I ran him to emergency to have my sweet baby put down. I'm so glad a friend was with me because I was hysterical crying then and I'm crying now as I type this.
I learned a very important lesson because of my little Bucky - It wasn't the money. I wanted to do all I could to keep him alive and the Vet did her job - she did a beautiful surgery. But in the end it was just too much for him to go through but once I started I couldn't stop until finally Bucky said "Enough"!
I love my lil' Zelda, and I've done all that I can to make sure her life is comfortable and happy. She's up to date on shots and we spend an hour a day on focused kitty time, lovin' up on her and playing with her lazer pointer. She loves it! It'd break my heart to have to put her up for adoption or God forbid put her to sleep, but she's a pet.
She's not a child, she's not equal to a human, and there's no way I'd force my animal through the indignity of being treated in a way that would scare her and that she wouldn't understand. I adopted her from an absolutely horrible living situation, and I'm never going to see her suffering and slinking around all scared the way she did the first month we had her. If she has a horrible condition that's going to be painful and scary for her, I'd want her to go out with as much dignity, love and joy as possible.
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