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True Friendship
Chez1 posted:
This is what I believe and is so true of this forum
hugs to all
hugs to all
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
37 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:True FriendshipThis is what I believe and is so true of this forum<br />hugs to all<br /><img src=http://www.layoutlocator.com/graphics/dldimg/749276f06e25b483a40960cd10ea244d_BCtruefriend0117.gif class=post_img />
niteflier responded:
I agree Chez 
thanks for the hug
((Hugs)) back at cha
thanks for the hug
((Hugs)) back at cha
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipI agree Chez <img src="http://img.webmd.com/community/images/smile.gif" align="top" border="0"> <br /> <br />thanks for the hug<br /> <br />((Hugs)) back at cha
have you been doing anything nice nf?
I have sat for the past few hours just throwing thoughts about my head, like playing a ball game inside!!!
I have psychologist in the morning, I am not sure if I am pro or against it, hence the ping pong game in my head.
I have printed some of my posts off to take it with me, of course that just freaks me out looking at what i wrote.....
but enough pondering, are you doing ok?
I have sat for the past few hours just throwing thoughts about my head, like playing a ball game inside!!!
I have psychologist in the morning, I am not sure if I am pro or against it, hence the ping pong game in my head.
I have printed some of my posts off to take it with me, of course that just freaks me out looking at what i wrote.....
but enough pondering, are you doing ok?
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
Report This| Share this:True Friendshiphave you been doing anything nice nf?<br />I have sat for the past few hours just throwing thoughts about my head, like playing a ball game inside!!!<br />I have psychologist in the morning, I am not sure if I am pro or against it, hence the ping pong game in my head.<br />I have printed some of my posts off to take it with me, of course that just freaks me out looking at what i wrote.....<br />but enough pondering, are you doing ok?
Hey Chez, no I havent been doing anything but playing ping pong as well.
I did like my counselor. It took me a long time to open up to him (he was surprised I didn't ask for a woman and asked me why I stayed with him). I told him trust doesn't come in a neat little package (i.e. a woman vice a man in this instance)
I kept notes in a tiny notebook and gave them to him at the end of the session. If I wanted to we could talk about it the next time or not. I just wanted him to know my thoughts, not necessarily talk about it right then. I never reread what i wrote as I knew I would not give them to him. (i.e. when i reread my posts, i just cancel them, but wish I had sent them out.
If you can find it to fold up the papers, seal them in an envelope that may make things easier. I gave mine at the end so I would not have to deal with it at my first few sessions (actually it took me months to open up as much as i did).
Hope this helps and you have a good session tomorrow.
In a way I wish you were awake, but if your asleeep I am happy that you are able to and hope it is a peaceful sleep.
((Huggs))
(((snoopy dance))) for ya
I did like my counselor. It took me a long time to open up to him (he was surprised I didn't ask for a woman and asked me why I stayed with him). I told him trust doesn't come in a neat little package (i.e. a woman vice a man in this instance)
I kept notes in a tiny notebook and gave them to him at the end of the session. If I wanted to we could talk about it the next time or not. I just wanted him to know my thoughts, not necessarily talk about it right then. I never reread what i wrote as I knew I would not give them to him. (i.e. when i reread my posts, i just cancel them, but wish I had sent them out.
If you can find it to fold up the papers, seal them in an envelope that may make things easier. I gave mine at the end so I would not have to deal with it at my first few sessions (actually it took me months to open up as much as i did).
Hope this helps and you have a good session tomorrow.
In a way I wish you were awake, but if your asleeep I am happy that you are able to and hope it is a peaceful sleep.
((Huggs))
(((snoopy dance))) for ya
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipHey Chez, no I havent been doing anything but playing ping pong as well. <br />I did like my counselor. It took me a long time to open up to him (he was surprised I didn't ask for a woman and asked me why I stayed with him). I told him trust doesn't come in a neat little package (i.e. a woman vice a man in this instance)<br /> <br />I kept notes in a tiny notebook and gave them to him at the end of the session. If I wanted to we could talk about it the next time or not. I just wanted him to know my thoughts, not necessarily talk about it right then. I never reread what i wrote as I knew I would not give them to him. (i.e. when i reread my posts, i just cancel them, but wish I had sent them out.<br /> <br />If you can find it to fold up the papers, seal them in an envelope that may make things easier. I gave mine at the end so I would not have to deal with it at my first few sessions (actually it took me months to open up as much as i did).<br /> <br />Hope this helps and you have a good session tomorrow. <br /> <br />In a way I wish you were awake, but if your asleeep I am happy that you are able to and hope it is a peaceful sleep.<br /> <br />((Huggs))<br /> <br />(((snoopy dance))) for ya <img src="http://img.webmd.com/community/images/smile.gif" align="top" border="0">
hi niteflier i am wide awake, to be honest not at all coping!!
been through all my destructive behaviours and still here with no answer, sore when the morning does come, in like a couple of hours i will know about it
Thank you for your words of advice
xx
been through all my destructive behaviours and still here with no answer, sore when the morning does come, in like a couple of hours i will know about it
Thank you for your words of advice
xx
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
Report This| Share this:True Friendshiphi niteflier i am wide awake, to be honest not at all coping!!<br />been through all my destructive behaviours and still here with no answer, sore when the morning does come, in like a couple of hours i will know about it<br /><br />Thank you for your words of advice<br />xx
I am sorry to hear that you are not coping at all and have gone through what you have today.
I don't know why we (I) think it will make us(me) feel better (if I am reading you right), but for some reason we(I) do. Why we(I) keep doing it with no positive results I don't know. I put it that way because I think you feel the same way. It is frustrating as ^&*(.
Is it 2am there? What time is your appointment?
I don't know why we (I) think it will make us(me) feel better (if I am reading you right), but for some reason we(I) do. Why we(I) keep doing it with no positive results I don't know. I put it that way because I think you feel the same way. It is frustrating as ^&*(.
Is it 2am there? What time is your appointment?
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipI am sorry to hear that you are not coping at all and have gone through what you have today. <br /> <br />I don't know why we (I) think it will make us(me) feel better (if I am reading you right), but for some reason we(I) do. Why we(I) keep doing it with no positive results I don't know. I put it that way because I think you feel the same way. It is frustrating as ^&*(.<br /> <br />Is it 2am there? What time is your appointment?
you still about niteflier? we can chat..
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
My computer is very slow. grrr. i have to hit home to see if there are new posts. for some reason they don't just pop up.
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipMy computer is very slow. grrr. i have to hit home to see if there are new posts. for some reason they don't just pop up.
so you dont have the answer, shame really as me either! it is indeed half past 2 here, my appt is at 8.30. I am supposed to go onto work right after that but not really sure how possible that is, some of what i have done tonight is so destructive i so dont belief i am fit to work, but right now can not think of how to change it.
sorry to put this on you, i am just glad someone is up
sorry to put this on you, i am just glad someone is up
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
Report This| Share this:True Friendshipso you dont have the answer, shame really as me either! it is indeed half past 2 here, my appt is at 8.30. I am supposed to go onto work right after that but not really sure how possible that is, some of what i have done tonight is so destructive i so dont belief i am fit to work, but right now can not think of how to change it.<br />sorry to put this on you, i am just glad someone is up
sorry just want to add, yes it is frustrating as f**k, i mean what is it all about, argghhhh
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
Report This| Share this:True Friendshipsorry just want to add, yes it is frustrating as f**k, i mean what is it all about, argghhhh
No worries, chez, i was worried i would keep you up. I hate to hear that tonight has been so destructive for you. can you take time off tomorrow without them flipping out? If so, a break would do you well after your therapy. I have to ask - you don't have to answer - should you see a doctor due to the destruction tonight or at all? I have come close several times, but never went to see a doctor. I guess that is pushing my luck.
I wish I could reach through and give you a soft ((hug)), but i keep running into the screen.
do you ever sleep well?
I wish I could reach through and give you a soft ((hug)), but i keep running into the screen.
do you ever sleep well?
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipNo worries, chez, i was worried i would keep you up. I hate to hear that tonight has been so destructive for you. can you take time off tomorrow without them flipping out? If so, a break would do you well after your therapy. I have to ask - you don't have to answer - should you see a doctor due to the destruction tonight or at all? I have come close several times, but never went to see a doctor. I guess that is pushing my luck. <br /> <br />I wish I could reach through and give you a soft ((hug)), but i keep running into the screen.<br /> <br />do you ever sleep well?
cant really take time, I am in control of my own work load but only member of staff in tomorrow, but then i think fk it, me and mine are more important than work, i will decide that in the morning. I do to push my luck, no need to get anyone else involved i feel in control (to a certain extent). I really do just wish i understand the urge and behaviour, it is so new to me. If it was faced with me as a client at work i would have much less confusion but that just makes me question my work ethos more.
No worries about you not getting through the screen, i felt it shudder a couple of times!!!
Tell me how you are doing? Are you ok with what you shared before and did it help or not??
No worries about you not getting through the screen, i felt it shudder a couple of times!!!
Tell me how you are doing? Are you ok with what you shared before and did it help or not??
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
Report This| Share this:True Friendshipcant really take time, I am in control of my own work load but only member of staff in tomorrow, but then i think fk it, me and mine are more important than work, i will decide that in the morning. I do to push my luck, no need to get anyone else involved i feel in control (to a certain extent). I really do just wish i understand the urge and behaviour, it is so new to me. If it was faced with me as a client at work i would have much less confusion but that just makes me question my work ethos more. <br />No worries about you not getting through the screen, i felt it shudder a couple of times!!!<br />Tell me how you are doing? Are you ok with what you shared before and did it help or not??
Chez, I'm here for as long as you need me. Thats what friends and family do for each other. )
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipChez, I'm here for as long as you need me. Thats what friends and family do for each other. )<br /><img src=http://ts1.mm.bing.net/th?id=I5057921574109432&pid=1.1 class=post_img />
I'm doing ok and am ok with what i shared before. Not sure if it helped or not, feel kind of numb to it. I think that is the denile stage in me....
How long has it been since you started getting the urge and acting on them?
How long has it been since you started getting the urge and acting on them?
Niteflier
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Perhaps the Animal Spirit is so great that one day it may inspire compassion in the human heart. Nan Sea Love
Report This| Share this:True FriendshipI'm doing ok and am ok with what i shared before. Not sure if it helped or not, feel kind of numb to it. I think that is the denile stage in me....<br /> <br />How long has it been since you started getting the urge and acting on them?
that is just gorgeous!! thank you for being there, not sure I am good company though, and you still have a whole evening to do something nice
xx
xx
People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily....... Zig Ziglar
Report This| Share this:True Friendshipthat is just gorgeous!! thank you for being there, not sure I am good company though, and you still have a whole evening to do something nice<br />xx
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