Oh my goodness, Caprice, there are SO MANY THINGS I can't have that I used to love eating. I'm GLAD I can't have them, as they weren't good for me, though.
Cheetos, light cheddar cheese potato chips, chocolate covered peanuts, brownie bites from Costco, FRUIT...I used to LOVE FRUIT, especially pineapple. I can only have small amounts of fruit now, or it sets me off very high. I was a BIG bread eater. I've cut WAY down to one or two slices of whole grain a day. I LOVED pasta, and ate it often. I only have it once a week, if that, and very small portions of a whole wheat one. I LOVED lasagna! I never have that now. I only ate pizza once in a while, then. I do miss that. I have the small pepperoni ones from Lean Cuisine once in a while, with a salad. I used to make a great chocolate cake for parties that was amazing. I don't eat that anymore. I DO have the low carb cheesecake(just two spoonfuls at The Cheesecake Factory if I go with 2 or three others and split it. I miss McDonalds hot fudge or caramel sundaes. I LOVED chocolate covered Sees caramel candy or Almond Rocha. I only had that at Christmas time, when other people had them out. I liked trail mix with peanuts.
So you can see, I've entirely had to change my way of eating the past four years. I just try not to think about what I can't have and concentrate on all the newer things I DO eat now.
I actually enjoy a lot of what I have now, and don't deprive myself of a good steak, lamb chops, (once in a while), and eat more fish, salmon, tuna, white meat chicken, more salads and vegetables, etc. Mostly, I really miss my fruit. The candy I can live without.
I try to think about what it would be like not to be able to taste anything. My dad lost his sense of taste in his older years. My girlfriend's husband who had the motorcycle accident lost his sense of taste. Now THAT would be hard. So I try to think about the GOOD things I CAN have, and how I can taste these things. Then, I don't dwell on what I can't or shouldn't have for my heart, cholesterol, or diabetes.
There are so many things to be joyful over than just food. Many of us in society make food a big part of celebrations.
It can make it hard for us to enjoy like we did before. One of my friends just found out she had a gluten allergy. She's changed her whole way of eating, BUT she feels so much better. There are so many things out there now in Ca. for people with gluten allergies, even little stores that make cupcakes and other things. She's not diabetic.
I've learned to love lentils, whole grain bread and whole wheat thin spaghetti, and best of all ...myself, not to eat all that stuff that was bad for me before. That's the best part of becoming diabetic. I've learned to respect my body, and make it more healthy.