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If you are struggling with self esteem and keeping your life in balance, don't have a child. It just will make things much worse, and you will raise children who might have self esteem issues. I'm not positive about if your own child will have mental issues. I chose not to have children of my own, because I didn't handle stress well until I went through therapy and straightened myself out. I know having children is a really hard job with lots of responsibilities, as is having a pet. The rewards are also great, too. Your main responsibility right now is to keep yourself leveled off.
I'm still deciding about coming back to WebMD. I really miss sharing ideas here, but I'm taking some time to think about it.
I've also overused my typing arm in working on my photos lately, so I want it to heal.
You are making some good choices for yourself. I'll be reading every once in a while, if you need someone to listen.
You can do this without me or anyone else. I didn't see one comment about anyone missing me on here. Maybe it was taken off, and maybe no one said anything. I hope someone appreciated the three years I spent on here, sharing thoughts.
I know some people have told me that over the years. I know "I" learned a lot from others, and have really benefited from it.
I just got back from a photo trip today and am off for zumba.
Take care.
Take care.
But first, you must be able to take care of yourself. Then you must be able to care for the woman you love. Then, when you get to that point, you can think about having a baby. Having a family is a huge lifetime responsibility.
Michelle
I'm not sure if anyone saw it. I'm taking a break right now. I felt so unsupported and upset. I'm sure we're not supposed to comment on what happened. Sorry I can't explain more. I'm taking a break. It's probably good, though, as my typing arm is really hurting right now, and I need to rest it. I spent 3 years on here "I thought" helping others, AND learning a lot for myself.
I was questioning if I made any difference in someone's life. I appreciate your comment, Barb, so much.
This has become a very different place than it was in past years.
Sad, really.
Beta...I've let go of the sadness and missing WebMD. I was really bummed out for a few days. Thanks again. I did get a nice letter from them which helped, too. I was so disappointed.
Den, you should just take it one day at a time. See what you can do for that day whether eating right, exercising or whatever. If you don't accomplish what you wanted, just tell yourself it was just one day, and try again tomorrow. Best of all, try and stay consistent. That would help.
The only that can help you with what is going on with your numbers, Den, is your doctor. Are you able to show him or her your meter to see what's going on?
This is a forum for people with diabetes. I know it can be hard to do, Den, but don't take things personally. It's not a chat room, but sharing thoughts and helpful hints to see what we can do to help or what we can learn from one another.
I usually give up after the second sentence.
I believe Den uses voice-recognition (or digital transcription) software. I can understand his posts. Sometimes I don't respond because I feel like I'm not very good at dispensing practical advice. But, I will try...
Den--
As for the belly-poking problem at work, you might have to be a bit firm with your request (but not too mean) so that the kid takes you seriously. Try this response (or something similar) first: "OK, come on, dude---the belly poking is getting old. Please cut it out." You can use a jovial (joking) tone the first time you ask him to stop, if you would like. If he keeps poking you, though, you might have to use a firmer tone.
As for your concerns regarding children, I have also wondered if passing on my genes would be the "right" thing to do. However, it can be really hard to tell if physical and mental health problems were brought on by the environment or by genes. I think that your mom is correct, in that the time to really consider this question is when your life is stable, and you are settled in a long term relationship. As Michelle has suggested, geneticists might be of some help, but even they can't necessarily determine whether an ailment is genetic in origin.
I agree with you about tone and following a large unbroken patch of words.
My thought is since I often have a difficult time understanding the point or question, I simply do not respond. No one is left questioning my motive and no one gets offended.
The thing you must remember about message boards is everyone gets something differnent out of them...some people need to be supported and others need to support. What a powerful concept! I am glad you are here too.
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