Medical hurdles also stand in the way. Baby steps sometimes are the only way. I have Lupus and after the tragic death of my son to suicide 12 years ago, drank every night to keep the pain (both physical and mental) from keeping me awake at night. I'm lucky, not to be prone to alcoholism. My weight has slowly but surely gone higher and higher. I'm now packing on an extra 60 pounds more than my doctor wants.
With help from my doctor, I'm now sleeping sound at night and without any 'help' from alcohol, or other drugs. It's only been a week, but WOW, do I feel refreshed when I wake. And, there's been a loss of a couple of pounds. My biggest change in eating habits, has been to start eating lots and lots of raw vegetables, even for breakfast. I made a dressing with cider vinegar, raw garlic, raw ginger and sea salt and smoked jalapeno pepper. ...yummy @ satisfying besides. A large cereal bowl full of salad, containing little to no lettuce, not only fills me up until lunch time, but takes a long time to eat, so eating is the last thing I want to do for a while.
My husband and I decided to have our big meal at noon, so I can have a few hours to work it off doing my chores around the house. This has also lessened the pressure on my stomach at night when I lay down. No more problems with acid reflux. If I feel like something in the evening, I snack on some cold cereal... cheerios, puffed rice or puffed wheat. (doc's suggestion that low calorie carbs will have a calming effect) And what is my drink of choice at night? A few large glasses of really cold filtered water with ice. I forgot what good water tasted like. It actually does satisfy me! If I'm in the mood for something hot, a nice large cup of spiced green tea with stevia is really nice.
Last night, I fell asleep just before 9, and slept restfully until 6 this morning. When I woke, I felt good and not the least bit ready to drop before I even got out of bed. I've found that the secret to regaining a healthier life for me, is not to obsess on being obese, but to look forward to what I can have to forget about being over weight... I'm not going to worry about what I can't have in order to loose weight, I'm looking forward to finding more and more natural foods that will help me feel healthy again. I'm actually learning to not like fats and sugars and empty calories that harm me.
Onward and Upward toward a better life! Believe it or not, it was you Web MD that got me started... Thank you for waking me up to the destructive nature of my habits.