It's a hard day. I lost my cousin and dearest friend yesterday and the tears keep seeping out today. It's hard to wrap my head around her loss. I know I am going to want to comfort myself with food in the coming days. But what I would really like to do is honor her by getting this weight off. We were both on this journey together and she was my treasured cheerleader and I was hers. She had just fit into a size 14 pants last week and it was such a big moment. It may not seem like such an accomplishment to most, but I know you can appreciate how hard she had worked to reach that amazing goal. Lord, I am going to miss her laugh.
Kathy, I read this while out running around today... I wanted so badly to reply just then, but I didnt want my phone autocorrecting me and making me sound insincere with it's "choice" of words. I was so, so sad for you. I could actually feel something inside of me reaching out to try to embrace you and try to console you. The many miles that seperate us do not change the fact that we are friends. I wish I could take some of your pain. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you today.
tight huggs k
Kim SW 252 CW 177.8 GW 135
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I am so sorry for your loss. A friend AND a cousin, she must have known you your whole life long. There must be so many memories you shared. How blessed you have been to have had her in your life! And she shared your weight loss quest, too! I don't have anyone who is comparable in my life, and I am a little envious. She and you are amazing people to have stayed so close and shared so much for so many years.
I pray that the Lord will dry your tears and that you will soon find that your pain is less than your joyful memories. And of course, that you, she and all your loved ones will in the Lord's time be reunited in Paradise.
CW 222.8 SW 229 GW 130 I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.-Philippians 4:13
Oh I can't tell you all how much your hugs and words mean to me. She was my sister in every sense of the word and we have no idea why this happened. She was 5 years younger so we hadn't been close childhood friends but we really connected as adults. Her neighbor found her at noon after she hadn't let the dog out and hadn't answered her phone. She apparently died in her sleep at 59. So shocking. I worry that she had cut her calories too low and had an arrhythmia because she had made an enormous push to lose fast because she was facing knee surgery. I also worry that she had a head injury because she fell in her kitchen this weekend and hit her head. She iced it and was fine but you never know. She was a nurse with the biggest, funniest,most irreverent sense of humor. I loved every single embarassing thing she ever said or did because she loosened up the uptight goody goody me. She was so generous and kind and beloved by so many. She looked just like Paula Deen and I swear she cooked as well. She had had a GBP many years ago but still struggled with her weight. She was proof that this is not an easy journey no matter the path you take. Thanks for giving me a place to talk about her. You all would have adored her as much as I. xxoo
Nice pic! Yes, she would fit right in with this group...dog and all. What a shock this must be to all who know and love her. 59 is just too young to be gone. Did you live near her? And the poor dog, too...I'm sure it misses it's mom. I'm so sad for your loss, Kathy. Tears are cleansing...I'd pass you more Kleenex if I could. Peace to you and your family.
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Thanks Abby. She still lives in Rhode Island where I grew up. I live about 2 1/2 hours away in CT. She visited me a lot and we yacked on the phone for hours. I understand her dog Seamus has gone to live with her brother's family. She adored her niece and would have loved that. I would have been happy to take him so he had no shortage of possibilities.
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