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I was hoping someone could help me with an IBS-related problem that I've been having for years.
I've suffered with IBS ever since I was in grade school ( I'm 44 now ). My symptoms included pain, diarrhea and the unexpected immediate urgency to run to the bathroom. Years ago my folks took me to a doctor that diagnosed me as having IBS after a battery of tests. When I was in my early 20s.. I was actually symptom free for years. Then around 1990.. some of the symptoms returned and have not gone away.
Now, only occasionally do I have the terrible pains I used to have. But I still have the unexpected urges, the cramping and the "feeling" that I have to have a bowel movement almost constantly.
The worst thing now is the feeling that after a bowel movement, I feel that I'm not finished. So one of the things I've been doing for years is inserting my finger to get what's left out. I know this sounds awful.. and totally gross.. but I can't seem to break this habit. No matter how much fiber I take, or water I drink.. my bowel movements never feel "complete". And they're not because there always DOES seem to be more left.. sometimes MUCH more. And I can only get it removed by using my finger. And I'm _not_ constipated either, my stools are always very soft and even loose sometimes. But it's like the rest won't come out without me trying to remove it.
Then there are times when I feel there's something there.. I have the cramping and urgency.. but when I insert my finger, there's nothing there.
I've been wondering that if by using my finger I'm not just irritating things even more.. making the feeling of having to go to the bathroom even worse. As I said.. I'm trying very hard to break this habit or find ways to alter my diet so that the feeling of having incomplete bowel movements goes away. I just want to be able to go to the bathroom _normally_.
Has anyone here ever had this problem? If so.. were you ever able to overcome it?
Any replies will be so greatly appreciated!
thanks again.
For me, it happens in cycles. I have had IBS my whole life. Used to be IBS-D, but now I have IBS-A (alternating between constipation and diarrhea) after having my gallbladder removed. Here is my cycle: > Constipation (rocks/pebbles) > Normal stool > Soft stool (sticky, hard to wipe) > Diarrhea
That cycle can last hours or days, depending on what I've eaten. For instance, I recently did have some chocolate, so I'm paying for it now.
Thomas, I can totally relate to using the finger. Don't feel bad or ashamed. Do what you need to do, as long as it's safe, and don't worry about social stigmas. The first time I tried it (years ago) I nearly gagged and threw up, but it HAD to be done. I rarely do that any more; only when my stools are really hard. I always use some sort of lubrication.
For a while in my late teens/early twenties, I would use a bulb syringe to give myself enemas, which really seemed to help. While it never seemed to bother me, my GI said NEVER to use tap water ever for an enema, because of chemicals and mineral deposits. Always used warm distilled water. Gotta start that up again.
All the best to everyone in their quest for the perfect BM. You know my great-grandmother, from the "old" country (eastern Europe), would always ask us if we made a good BM. She knew!

As it stands now I have a sourness on the left side of my upper abdomen which I can only feel when I pinch my flesh. Otherwise I have a vague minor pain in my stomach which occurs latter in the day.
In closing I have found that Imodium and all symptom Maalox works well to get me thru the day.
IBS for years and it is seriously impacting the quality of
my life. It is on my mind all the time and as some of you have said thes symptoms are so embarrassing it is even hard to talk
to the doctor about it. I finally did yesterday and he agreed
to try to help me find the cause and possibly a treatment that might help. Tomorrow I am having an abdominal ultra sound.
The colonoscopy I had last year did not show any abnormalities
and probably this won't either. But I am relieved to know I am not alone. I feel like i am squeezing it out of a pastry tube and
sometimes it comes out very long and the size of a pencil. has
anyone experienced that. I also go in installments. 10 times
a day I pass a small stool. vaery annoying. Thanks to all of you for
your input.
I am having IBS for about three years now. Prior to that I had no problem whatsoever and I was regular in my daily bowl movement although I used to strain to evacuate as soon as possible. Now I have both external and internal hemorrhoids but they are not severe form. I did a colonoscopy that detected the internal hemorrhoids. First specialist I visited recommended that I go through the PPH procedure to fix the internal hemorrhoid which he though is the cause for my IBS. He sent me to a PPH surgeon. But after examining me that surgeon told me that my hemorrhoids are not severe enough to have PPH and instead referred me to physical therapy such as kegel type exercises. Those exercises helped a little bit but not very much. When I went back to PPH surgeon she recommended that I use tap water enema if I don't feel clean. This seemed to help a lot although it is inconvenient having to apply the enema (I use disposable Fleet plastic bottle until it punctures). But so far this is the best solution I found for regular use without having to use daily laxative. I also take daily fiber supplement, magnesium and B12 tables. I notice stress has a big impact on hemorrhoids flare up and IBS.
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