Hi! I know that you originally posted this quite a while back, but I just joined the community & felt the urge to reply! I've had 3 laps since 2006 & I never would've had the that first one done if I had not begged the doctor to do surgery! I went into that surgery praying that they'd find something wrong since up until that time I think they all believed that I was imaging all this pain! After the surgery she told me that I had stage 3 endo - something I'd already figured out from doing research on the internet! I've changed doctors since then - had 2 more laps <all of this took place in texas> & now I'm back in Louisiana with my "real" gyno! I call him that because he is my mom's doctor, he delivered my sister 30 yrs ago & he was the first ob/gyn that I went to when I was 16!
The dr that did my first lap should've actually done it about 6 months prior to when she actually performed it & I believe that her waiting those few months before she actually went in only made my case worse! I've been on the depo shot & while no period means no cramps the other side effects were horrendous! After the shot, I got on Seasonique & it really helped a lot, but I have no insurance & the script costs $300! I'm back on monthly BC, but with a period comes the cramps that knock me off my feet for 3 days! Following the laps, my cramps never eased! Prior to my first lap the only response I got after pleading for medicinal help with my cramps was to take ibuprofen & that was the same response I got even after it was proven that I had a legitimate medical problem so after 8 ibuprofen didn't ease my cramps one bit I'd end up at the emergency room & thankfully gained some compassion from the doctors <my surgical records were on file since it was done in the same hospital so they knew I wasn't lying>! Now, I'm back with my original ob/gyn & even though he's never felt the pain of endo - thankfully he understands that the pain is real & requires real medication to knock out the cramps! My monthly period of bedrest is a thing of the past & my employer doesn't have to worry about me calling in sick for 3-4 days during that time! There was this cloud of depression that once surrounded me - it was caused by my fear of the pain that could strike at any moment & was like a bonus that occurs about 2 times a week! Now, I don't feel the anxiety or depression simply because I know I have the means to control that pain myself thanks to an understanding doctor! I hope that by now you've found a dr that's understanding & makes you feel comfortable - if not I encourage you to keep searching! Endo is a disease that's taken very lightly in the medical field - there's still some drs that don't even believe in its existance - but you have others who take it very seriously & rank it up there with cancer! I said all of this to make this point: without seeing an understanding dr you're going to suffer everyday - I believe it is in their master plan to tear you down by letting this disease take over your life <& it can - trust me> but by finding a dr who actually cares you'll see your whole view on this disease change when you realize that - no - you don't have to suffer daily in silence! There's so many women plagued by this disease & most believe they're doomed to suffer daily, but they need to realize that there's drs out there who'll actually do all they can to ensure that we don't suffer!