First and foremost, the young lady should NOT be denied her E drugs. Doing so will cause her brain to kindle, and re-kindle repeatedly, causing more seizures--and causing more damage in the long run. When that happens, it becomes harder to find any kind of control, medication or otherwise (diet, therapy, surgery, VNS).
THAT said, some of us do have a lower seizure threshold, period. Mix in alcohol, or even just aspirin (OTC meds, etc), and we can go off. Truly. Her "fainting" episodes may actually be another form of seizure--without a better description, I couldn't really tell you. There are over 40 different types of seizures, as I posted previously, some of them you lose consciousness, some you don't. She may have had a TONIC seizure.......which might fit in with what you're talking about.
Follow this link for more information on the different types of seizures:
www.epilepsy.com/EPILEPSY/TYPES_SEIZURES
You also need to understand something else, though. DEPRESSION goes hand in hand with E(pilepsy). If she IS drinking/doing any drugs, it may be in order to deal with THAT. Something else to keep in mind: There are ELEVEN anti-epileptic drugs that are on the FDA's "Suicide Watch List". Check out the following link:
www.coping-with-epilepsy.com/forums/f22/suicide-risk-11-epilepsy-drugs-2416/
I'm sure she could use some counseling, but JUDGMENT will not get her anywhere. That's something all of us E patients go through on a daily basis, and it is a royal pain in the arse. I do understand that the church is looking to shell out money, but TRY to put yourself in HER shoes for once... How would you feel knowing that you could seize at any time? How would you feel if you're depressed at the same time? How would you feel at that age if you had THOSE problems and NO PARENTS?
Another couple of sites to check out besides epilepsy.com to understand what she is going through are:
www.coping-with-epilepsy.com &
communityforum.epilepsysupportgroup.com/
Hopefully they can help you, and possibly her, too.
Much luck to you both.
Meetz