Hello Amy,
Welcome to our Ep Family. I have questions.

What med/dose are you taking? For How Long? Meds &/or uncontrolled seizures can be responsible for 'memory loss'. Have you ever been in an Epilepsy Monitoring Unit &/or seen an Epileptologist (Seizure Specialist) ? Do you keep a Daily Journal (more Info under Tips) or a seizure Tracker (Resources) Have you ever heard of Catamenial Seizures? (Chek our Resources for more Info)
You are not alone. There are Lots of people out there w/ more than 1 disorder. Did you know some of our anti-convulsion meds are used for Bi-Polar symptoms, too?
My seizures are under control, but, my Memory (short & long term) is 'shot' too. I've lived here in my small town for 10 yrs & have problems remembering how to get to certain places. If I don't do something on a daily basis I forget. But, hon, if you are having seizures, you should Not be Driving. Period! So, it really isn't important to remember how to get places. Let your Designated driver worry about it.
Your head feels like 'mush'? Well, that is another side effect of Meds.

But, exercise (walking, biking, dancing, etc) & Proper Nutrition can Help!
Another question: Has your Dr ever discussed Epilepsy Diets or other 'alternatives (VNS, Neurofeedback, Hormone/progesterone or Chiropractic) w/ you?
Hugs! I hope you have a Good Day.
Love Candi