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adam342 posted:
Been having sex since 19 but everytime i have sexual intercourse it only could be between 3 to 7 min and my premature ejaculation happens, somethimes less. Dont know what to do, this is ruining my sex life with my partner, (female). cant afford a doctor, is their medicines over the counter that can help my problem, also im 27 and 4 1/2 to 5 inches penis size, always been a problem, can anyone help.
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Eugenio311 responded:
3 to 7 minutes is damn good, my friend, although you might not believe it if you pay attention to locker room bragging or believe porn is real. Having said that, the definition of PE is ejaculating before you or your partner wants it. If that's the case, I recommend you focus on other ways to please your woman. There are many that don't involve a penis at all.
BTW, 4.5 to 5 inches is NOT abnormal. OK, it's on the small side of average, but it is totally NORMAL. I'm not much longer than you and there are plenty of guys around like us. From what you posted, you don't need medicine OR a doctor. Medicines that delay ejaculation have side effects you might not enjoy. So be confident, take care of your health, get (or stay) physically fit and avoid porn. One other bit of good news is that PE becomes less of a problem as you get into your 40s and beyond. Something to look forward to ; ). Good luck, bud.
Eugenio
 
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adam342 replied to Eugenio311's response:
So my question is somethimes i would have IT infront of me and i wont be able to get hard? why? u said avoid porn?? i like porn but whats the side effect to this? Thanks
 
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Eugenio311 replied to adam342's response:
The side effects of porn are exactly what you're experiencing, PE and ED when you're with a real woman. Also, once you've had the experience of not being able to get hard, it tends to happen again and again, because you're so psyched out about it. Realize it's normal occasionally, sometimes even for young guys.
You might just need to get a physical exam and/or take better care of yourself. Are you a smoker? Drinker? Use any other drugs? Stressed out or exhausted? All those can have an effect as well. If you're not getting your rest, exercising, and eating well, you're more likely to have trouble in bed.


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