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Having trouble getting hard/premature ejaculation
jbtd2066 posted:
I'm a 45 yr old male in a relationship with a 33 yr old gorgeous girlfriend. Until last month we have had sexual relations with no problems. Then all of a sudden, last month i started to have trouble getting hard. It freaked me out let alone embarrass me. I went to a urologist and got checked out and he said i was fine, just all in my head. But I'm still going through the same issues. Every time she wants to have sex, i start to freak out in my mind because I'm afraid it won't get hard and at times it hasn't. Don't know what to do, we want to marry eventually but this could wreck everything. Going back to my urologist, I don't want to lose my girl
nohard responded:
At 45 your just on the edge of lowering testostrone, you could try DHEA as a boost, you can read about here on site, just put DHEA in the search box and read, but watch its side effects, you can try some herbs, better than drugs, you can try erection tea and the 5Gs just google them and look for pegym, then there is cayenne, garlic, green tea and one last thing thats helping me is borax/boron, read about this on there a good peice on it.
In the last 16 moths have been through ED, but if you fight it you win, like me and its herbs and hormon replacement thats kept me out there with my wife, but can still have some bad days, but when it works its good.
Good Luck
fiftycents responded:
I am a 49 yo male with a gorgeous wife 33 yo we have been married for about five years. for the past year or so I have been noticing a dramatic change in sex drive. I have been doing my own research, so for the past week or so I have been taking dhea and l arginine. I haven't seen any great improvement yet, but still tonight we have the most amazing non penetration lovemaking that we have had in years. Not concentrating on the penetration, but enjoy pleasing her through oral, manual and caressing. She came about three times. Of course, I want my dick to rock hard standing up like a flag pole and in the cookie...I am working on it and thank God for viagra, cialis, etc...if worse came to worse! Most importantly talk to her about it and let her know how much she means to you and that you would do anything to please...try a little tenderness...

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