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ED problems past 2-3 days
An_245482 posted:
I am 29 year old male, married for almost year and a half. I have never had any problems with erection and have enjoyed a very active sex life with my partner till now. Recently since past three days, I have started noticing erection issues while having sex. I thought if it was some sort of a developing problem and hence watched a porn movie yesterday just to test myself. I got a very good erection and I did masturbate twice yesterday (gap of about 2-3 hours) but last night I did not get erection while having sex with my wife.
Is this normal? I am quite freaked out at this point, please help...
I am a healthy guy 5.10 inch with muscular body. Weight 75+ kgs, and do Gym workout regularly. I am not on any medication.
nohard responded:
OK I think porn is a great libido lifter as you have found out, next time have your wife with then she can make use of the erection, and it sounds like your masterbating ok, so things cant be that bad, are you getting morning woods?, as for nat getting an erection during sex with your wife, look we all have had this at some time, it happens, but the more you worry and grip over it thr worst it will get, try just putting it to the back of your mind for a while, get to bed with your wife and do this after having a nice bath/shower together, now dont rush things just let it happen and see how things go from there.
Good Luck
nohard responded:
I was thinking that you could try a cock ring, there ok I have one, it was a present for my wife for xmas, this come from myhardwear .com, its a hardwear ice, it gives me most fantastic boners like I've never had before, have a look on there site, but you will need to be shaved to get it to fit properly, then if your wife is like mine then she loves it shaved.
Good Luck
An_245482 replied to nohard's response:
Thanks for that...I agree with your comment about "not to worry about it and not to rush", but it seems as compare to a week before, I am not getting erection quickly and do not sustain it for long time since 4-5 days now.

Earlier my libido was kicking as anything, in fact prior to this week, getting aroused and sustaining it was as easy as talking, but now its getting tough. By the way, day before yesterday my wife and I did watch a porno together and ended up having great sex. But in the night, I did not get good erection and when I did, I was not able to sustain it for long. We are thinking of resting for 2 days and then try again..will have to seek medical help if we dont succeed.

I also feel if I had hurt any blood vessel due to power lifting in gym...but if that was the case, "day before yesterday's" sex would never have happened.
nohard replied to An_245482's response:
Look sorry for not comming back quicker, I do have a post on, its titled HERBS VERSUS DRUGS, HERBS MY CHOICE, and in genral discussions, its my way of overcomming ED, but it needs to become a life style, I'm now in recovery and have sex 4/5 times a week, not bad when I'm comming up to 65, so please give it a read and a try, its the cheapest way of getting out of ED and no drugs to take for sex.
Good Luck

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