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Not understand the masterbation thing

Leemalvern posted:

Ive been in this relationship for over ten years. I think he would rather masterbate than attempt to have sex with me. Ive been told Im good looking. Ive tried to talk to him about it and he tells me to go to the doctor. I took a shower one day and he was so ingrossed in the picture he was looking at when I got out that he didn't even notice I was in the room for a few minutes. Do some guys preferr to just look at pictures and jack off compared to pleasing them selves with the willing women right next to them? I don't know how long this sexless relationship can go on for me. Im lucky to get fifteen minutes a year out of him. Please give me your thoughts. I dont fool around, so Im going to leave if I cant fix this.

1 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:Not understand the masterbation thingIve been in this relationship for over ten years. I think he would rather masterbate than attempt to have sex with me. Ive been told Im good looking. Ive tried to talk to him about it and he tells me to go to the doctor. I took a shower one day and he was so ingrossed in the picture he was looking at when I got out that he didn't even notice I was in the room for a few minutes. Do some guys preferr to just look at pictures and jack off compared to pleasing them selves with the willing women right next to them? I don't know how long this sexless relationship can go on for me. Im lucky to get fifteen minutes a year out of him. Please give me your thoughts. I dont fool around, so Im going to leave if I cant fix this.

georgiagail responded:

You can't "fix" anything here. Your partner prefers to masturbate rather than invest the time and energy into sexual contact with you. It would appear you've approached him regarding your concerns and he's blown you off (although, not literally).

There is nothing medically wrong with you that requires a visit to a physician.

Your "illness" can be cured by leaving this relationship and finding someone who is not quite as lazy as this person.

Gail

Report This| Share this:Not understand the masterbation thingYou can't "fix" anything here. Your partner prefers to masturbate rather than invest the time and energy into sexual contact with you. It would appear you've approached him regarding your concerns and he's blown you off (although, not literally). There is nothing medically wrong with you that requires a visit to a physician. Your "illness" can be cured by leaving this relationship and finding someone who is not quite as lazy as this person. Gail

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