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Not being able to Ejaculate
An_246457 posted:
My boyfriend has had a problem with ejaculation. He just can't no matter what we have tried. Any ideas on what to do or what could be the problem?
huey63 responded:
This is my first time on this community forum and I hope this is helpful and not too ...? Don't know the ages but wife and I are in 60s. As a prostate cancer survivor with ED, I've been confronted with this issue and others. Some sex therapists report that the sex life in 60s can surpass wildest dreams. Wif and I concur. We have sex usually 6 times per week and that frequency may affect my libido recovery (this is maybe way more info than you requested, but background may be helpful). Some things we do to bring on ejaculation:
1. Oral sex is more stimulating in some ways and produces wild orgasms for both of us. But we miss the intimacy of face to face sex with penetrating eye contact so this solution is less frequent.
2. Wif can bring ejaculation by stoking penis with warming gel.
3. We've found that watching explicit sex videos can help bring orgasm. For our tastes, very few videos are tasteful enough to watch, but we found vids on and that were filled with highly erotic, yet filled with intimacy, closeness and romance (not usually found in more "smutty" porn).
4. I found that integrating fantasy in love making is very erotic. For me, outside of relationship fantasy is neither helpful nor usually possible. The power of fantasy for me is in re-living our first occasion of love-making (some 40 years ago). I imagine and reinvent the occasion talking to Wif as if we were back then, using as romantically erotic language as I can muster.

Again, hope this is helpful. And, of course, if I had all the answers, I wouldn't be looking for answers in this community myself. Best of luck. husy
letzwalk replied to huey63's response:
Thanks for the tips, Huey.
We are in our 50's and my bf has had a TBI - traumatic brain injury. He has been so willing to go the distance in pleasing me. AND I would love to be able to help him as well. I think I'll try some of these. Thanks for your honesty.
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