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idkgoogleit posted:
hello, first off i would like to start by saying i've been somewhat of a frequent masterbator for about 4 years. i'm 17, fixing to turn 18. when i first started this habit, i masterbated around 2-3 times a day for a few months. but i got over that, and reduced it to about once a day for about 3 years. this past year i've been off and on with the masterbation. a cour of months ago, i got together with a amazing girl who i'm very happy with and very attracted too. but we just recently tried to have sex twice and i could not mantain a erection both times, which made me feel very frustrated and upset. but she said it was alright, as we are both virgins. i'm very attracted to her and have strong feelings for her, i kept my erection on during the whole entire foreplay sessions but i lose it when i put on the condom and notice my penis isn't all that big, than it goes limp. i'm thinking it may be the over masterbation or maybe a physcolgical problem.i do go through alot of stresses. im a senior im highschool, i also work at a really busy diner/gas station 25-30 hours a week. i also smoke but not alot. if i could get some insight and tips on my problem, i would be much more relieved and relaxed
nohard responded:
Hi Did you at any time and even now masturbate to porn, it sounds a bit like the same reaction men get from porn enduced ED, and your only way out is to take a sabbatical, and you need to be celbate for the whole time, it takes 8 weeks to get over it and reboot your body, so its no masturbating, no sex or any sexual contact of any kind.
But you will need to tell your g/f about what you are doing and why, its called being honest and if you want your love life to proseed its the way that you have to go, but dont forget this is for your sex life, and with your g/f sex lives.
Good Luck
An_248406 replied to nohard's response:
most of the time yes, a couple of times i used my imagination. but yes, do you think it's porn related ed?
nohard replied to An_248406's response:
Hi, Ok Then just carry out the instuctions that I have given and you should me ok, but do it the letter or you will never be better, and yes its porn related.
Good Luck
RobertPatrick responded:
I think it may be your first time exp of sex, due to that i think your body and mind wasn't prepared. Or it may be due to smoking you have erectile problems. Have you consult doctor for that.

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