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An_250036 posted:
My boyfriend and have been dating for 2 years now. We have not had sex. We have talked about it. He says he wants to have sex with me but he is not ready yet, but I caught he and another friend (male) watching porn and jacking off. He says he isn't gay, but I wonder why he won't have sex with me. Should I let him go and move on?
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georgiagail responded:
Unless you two are extremely young, if you haven't had sex in two years, it is likely that this is not going to happen anytime soon....if ever.

Just because you caught him masturbating with another male is certainly not a signal that he is gay. But it is unusual that sexual contact between the two of you has not taken place in the two years you have been dating.

Gail
 
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RobertPatrick responded:
I think he is not interested in you...
Or he is lacking libido or sex drive.
 
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ontbear responded:
Hi. what is your ages and what is the situtation that you saw your boy friend. Where did this happen. Were they drinking....ontbear
 
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An_250036 replied to ontbear's response:
They were home. Yes they were drinking beer. They also knew I was coming over.
 
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tinkerbell25 replied to RobertPatrick's response:
Thank you
 
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tinkerbell25 replied to georgiagail's response:
Age has nothing to do with. But yes we are both in our late 50s.
 
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tinkerbell25 replied to ontbear's response:
Is watching porn with another male and jacking off normal? Watching porn with another male I think is normal but jacking off makes me think he would rather be with him instead of men.
 
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stevesmw responded:
He sounds very young and immature. I can only think of one reason for chosing masturbation over sex with a willing parnter, he believes it will take the relationship to another level and isn't willing to take that step.
 
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RobertPatrick replied to tinkerbell25's response:
You are welcome.


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