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Problems In Marriage Caused by ED
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An_250206 posted:
I love my husband very much but his ED is troubling me. He does take Viagra and that helps but it is so planned and I have lost my desire. I am very depressed. I try to be supportive but i get too depressed. He never came out about his ED when we were dating. We never had sex before marriage. I am really upset and our relationship is starting to have cracks. Anyone in the same boat? Thanks
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stevesmw responded:
Diffferent situation, but simular issues. My wife can only initiate sexual activity. I need to be ready at a moments notice. I use to get jumped just as I got home from work. At age 60 I had no ed issues. After then they started showing up. I am quite capable of having intercourse, but my wife wants to see an erection before anything starts.

I got a free 30 day trial everyday Cialis. It worked ok but paying $200 a month and taking pills every day at the chance my wife would be in the mood which could be months or years apart. This might be a solution for you and your husband. If the medication worked for him, he would be ready 24/7.

I don't know much about you or your husband, age, sexual activities, sexual experience. I had my first girl friend at about age 30. We dated for months and did nothing but passionate kissing and hugging. One day she had enough and asked me to bed. I was about ready to explode and she wanted immediate intercourse. I didn't last very long and that was the end of our sexual and other relationship.
My second girlfriend asked me to bed on our first date. She allowed me to satisfy her orally and manually prior to intercourse and she became my sexual soul mate. We had a lot of fun.

Sex is more than intercourse. He should be able to pleasure you without his penis. Using Viagra, he would take the pill and you could do all kinds of great things to each other; kissing, hugging, fondling until he is hard and then intercourse can begin.
 
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NOHARD responded:
Hi Was given Viagra here in Greece not not work for me bad side effects.
So did my own thing and searched for a way out and found herbs were my answer.
If you go to franktalk,org, I have 4 post on there that coers how and how much I take, and 2 more that cover herbs all with links so you can read up about them, and with these you can choose you your own ones that you think will work better, but you will find that its not down to one herb we need a mix, get this mix right, and he should be back to normal, ie sex at anytime you want it and him.
Good Luck


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