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Sexual interest has gone out the window for both of us.
An_248109 posted:
My Wife and I are both 65 years old. We have been married for almost 10 years now. Great years.
It is the 2nd and 3rd marriage for us. She is a beautiful and sexy women of my dreams.
Sex was out of this world for 4 to 5 years and with nothing happening to interfere, it just stopped. I thought I had ED however medicine did not make any difference whether it be the oral or rub on medicine to raise my "T" numbers. Turns out the "T" numbers were acceptable.

One thing that been there from the beginning is that she has always been very willing and I was always the aggressive one, that's great, however even during sex it seems she just lays there. I am not meaning she doesn't move or answer my moves its like (deep) inside her inner self that is not turning on.

There are no different positions that either one of us want and we have tried different lubes, but I have to repeat there is something (it could be) family upbringing. She has said she does not like the simple sex toys we have tried and she has tried them, so she seems to be willing in that regard, however it is just like she lays there because she is doing her duty. I do not now or ever want my Wife to perform for me, don't get me wrong I am a man but I would never do anything to hurt her, so without telling her it just does not change, so we just don't have sex anymore and seem to be just as much in Love...............but I think it could be different. I've tried "Viagra" and there like and went to the urologist and tried the rub on medicine and then tried the Penis pump, all seem to change nothing. So I turn to the experts for any and all advise.
PS. Am I not turned on because its me or is it her thought of sex?
Thanks for the kind ear,

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