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I am currently taking ambien cr for my insomnia - after a lifetime of battling it, I finally went to a sleep specialist for help. I also went to an orthopedist, who gave me an rx for cyclobenzaprene for the muscle spasms, but this seems to accomplish little more than make me groggy. In fact, I still have the same bottle of pills from 6 mos ago! (90 tablets)
I'm afraid that my trapezius muscle might be developing a sort of "muscle memory" and find even simple tasks like doing the dishes or folding laundry exhausting/painful. Any activity that requires lots of upper body movement causes dread!
Should I see another doctor, and if so, what kind? Would massage therapy help? Sometimes I feel I would give my right leg for a massage from someone who understands this kind of muscle pain... The kind you get from a spa/resort type of place just doesn't work... I wind up feeling black and blue bruised up (never a bruise to be seen though!) are there any muscle relaxers or medications or treatments that are more frequently recommended for this kind of upper back/neck tightness and pain?
I honestly can't remember the last time I did not have this constant, burning, aggravating, irritating, frustrating tightness and pain! It's driving me up the wall as its always there, 24 hrs a day (even wakes me up at night, despite my heating pad, awesome neck pillow - which I can't hope to fall asleep without lest I wake up in agony - and a tempurpedic mattress, which has also helped my overall aches and pains)
Help!
I know it is very frustrating when doing simple housework is literally a pain in the @$$ and everywhere else. I also see a counselor which helps with the emotional side of dealing with the pain from fibro. As for the medicine I don't know because I haven't found anything that works. However, I was told by my aunt that exercising in a pool helps. I am going to try it out.
I pray you find some type of relief.
That pool exercising recommended by fibrostressd sounds good also. Is that one of those therapy pools with warmer water?
becky
I have one stretch someone told me, which helps my neck/shoulders. Looking straight ahead, bring your chin in and down and hold a few seconds. It stretches the back of the neck. This is good if I get hunched over the keyboard, etc.
Margaret
I am so you...this is where I argue with my body the most. I used to think that a vodoo doll was made of me by an enemy and they were sticking pins in my shoulder blade area....!!!
There are times i went to my neurologist and she would say , "your ears are down to your shoulders...you need release!"
I am one of few here that use trigger poin therapy to release my muscles. It has taken years to develop the memory of release and relax for them, but it works so well.
I use a book "FM and Chronic Myofascial Pain by; Dr Devin Starlanyl. Try it please. It is very enlightening to give you anatomy and cause and effect. What non medical things to do to help.
I use massage frequently to release the areas between injections. It hurts to have the area touched but the movement of congestion to that zone but pays of in a day or two.
Warming the muscles first and then working them is helpful.
To the right under resources you will find our "toolbox", I wrote that post so long ago....and it is many pages, but what it is is all our tricks and tools in one spot. The things we found worked for us.
As trigger point injections by my neurologist (primary) is my main therapy then I am on soma for relaxant, started it at night, now 3 times a day...Ultracet for the pain and savella for the chemistry behind it all. I have had 2 runs of botox to the muscles without response but I am grateful for the try......
When I am as tight as you are, the massage helps alot. I tell her that it is upper body and do deep.....at times I could throw up as IT was so bad when I walked in....(usually because I crossed a line somewhere...) BUT..I leave better then when I went in, and the drink alot**** of water to flush what is released from the muscles...I shower and add heat to help dilate vessels to also pick up debris and move it away....
I have 2 people who do my massage well, my DH does it too in a pinch but often he just trigers a headache by stimulating them more the efflurage sweeping movements to milk the muscles.
Look into the book please it is so powerful a guide, and look in the toolbox....EVERYONE has had something to add.
Sleeping too maybe better with a memory foam mattress topper, this was the first pearl the board gave me when I joined....big difference. I still can't lay on my back though. I am L side lying always!
Gee I wish you all the best I know this trapezius feeling so well, I even asked about removing it......"so what if I can't shrug my shoulders...it is a pain in the as*......literally" NO GO, no takers on that idea!
All my best, Nancy B
Ask about the botox, see what they say. I also find yoga very helpful, and swimming is one of the few exercises that makes me feel better the more I do it. Unfortunately I hate wearing swimsuits in public, but I get over it. I hope you find relief soon!
Pam in Savannah
I replied to the original note as well. My first botox seemed to help a great deal, but this second round not so much. It will be interesting to see if I have it a third time. I wonder why it would quit working? Our bodies just keep us guessing! I recently had some massage therapy done, and I think it did help, so I plan to go regularly but am in a zone of multiple doctor appointments (docs are trying to tag me with rheumatoid arthritis now; tested before, negative, tested again yesterday, so we shall see--painful, swollen knucles, my dad has rheumatoid, ugh) so haven't had time to go again. Take care!
Pam in Savannah
Becky
I think we've all been there! It does little good in my mind, so I often do my best to count my blessings. I have a loving (if not always understanding:)) family, a lovely work environment, and a decent cadre of docs who mostly try to coordinate their therapies (I do have to stay on top of that, though!).
Here lately the fatigue has been my greatest challenge. I am working today and tomorrow, and this weekend will be busy (Father's Day, college graduation), so I have 'scheduled' true 'time off' on Saturday--nothing to do except rest and relax! I think it is important to find something that nurtures yourself, whether it is a bubble bath, a few hours with a good book, a walk with the dog or lunch with a friend, do something that recharges you.
Hang in there. In the darkest hours, know we are here to vent to and understand and that you can make it through!
Pam in Savannah
I do get massages about twice a month and they have helped a lot. The frequency of the night-time muscle tightness has lessened.
I understand your reservations about going to a spa place for a massage. I am fortunate to have a massage therapist who is knowledgeable about fibro - in fact her sister has fibro.
Many chiropractors will also do massage. You might look into that.
I had bad numbness in both feet and found out I had bad nerves, torsal tunnel. Had surgery to help which worked for a few months. During foot surgery recovery I woke up with a pain in my shoulder. Had and MRI done and found that I had spinal stenosis in C1-3, C4 and 5 were so bad that my neck was out of line by 1/4 inch and pressing on spinal cord causing headaches. Had neck surgery and was doing better but numbness progressed.Stenosis basically has made my body wiring all wrong.
I can tell you that I found a massage therapist who worked wonders on my back and shoulders.The spasms were so bad that you could see the muscles bulging out of my back. I walked into her office barely able to walk and after the first visit I left feeling 50% better. I went every 2 weeks and what a difference it made for me. I haven't been now in about 6 months. She too was very knowledgeable about fibro. The girl I went to was so good she even showed my husband what to do incase of flare ups if needed.
I still have a lot of burning in joints, fatigue and pain but it is bareable. I also has a wonderful doctor who cares and listens which has made all the difference in the world.
Have you tried the full bed heating pad, I believe they are sold at Bed/Bath, I don't have one have heard they are great.
I wish you all the best and hope all th post offer you some help.
I had two runs of Botox...a neurotoxin which "kills" the endplates of the muscles so conversation between them slows and in hopes of growing a newer more functioning endplates...
In saying that (I hope I don't regret down the line I did that) as it made no difference for me. I got a terrible menningitis type headche after the first session and took off from work for the second , and wa-la...no side effects at all. Hmmm
Asked if she used generic! I don't know why no reaction the second time and also no change in my issues.
I don't think they give a third, I have not seen it in literature.
I do get lidocaine trigger points every two weeks and they and massage are how I stay together and as high functionin gas I think* I am!
Hoping that everyone could find the right doctor....the right meds and the right therapy that helps them.
I have had many massages and not all have a positive reponse but I know the muscles need the congestion moved from them and I go anyway. I is what I do for ME!
Well, hoping that you are in a better place, best of luck, Nancy B
Pam
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