Fibromyalgia can be absolutely overwhelming in its various forms and various intensities. Most of us who have had it for many years still can't understand why our symptoms can be so bad one day and not so bad the next. And medications that work for one person don't necessarily work for another. Fibro is really a pain in the neck (pun intended).
The type of doctor you need, at least for now, is a rheumatologist. He/she specializes in arthritis and the autoimmune conditions like fibro. There are a variety of medications you can take, but not all drugs are effective for all people. It can take a long time to find the right combination that makes you feel better. There are many different autoimmune conditions and you can have more than one at the same time. That happened to me and I was very sick, but the second one has gone into remission -- hopefully forever!
I don't know what kind of medical insurance you have, but I hope it's good. Your rhematologist will probably want you to have a variety of different tests (yes, very expensive) to rule out other causes of your pain. You would also benefit from a physical therapist and a mental health counselor. It is so easy to get very depressed when you're in pain and the rest of the world seems to be having a grand old time while you scrunch up on your couch wishing time would speed by so you can go to bed.
The mental health aspect of treatment is as important as the physical care you'll need. It's very hard to feel better when you're feeling depressed and guilty (yes, guilty because you have to rely on family and/or friends to do things for you).
Your job right now is to get enough rest, eat healthfullly, research medical opportunities(rheumatologists, chiropractors, physical therapists, massage therapists, etc.) that can begin to provide some relief for you.
I do hope you feel better soon.
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