Dear Jen,
OMG you need to breathe. A new diagnosis no matter what the label is so hard to chew on and digest. It is frightening, for the unknown in the future.
BUT I want you to know that SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED in the world of MS. Major research and meds that are holding it at bay have come to the public.
I also was thought of as MS as said above our symptoms overlap....big for MS is loss of function or hyperreflexia (when they hit you with the hammer and you jump....THEY jump to knock you over!
On CT there is demyelinations (loss of the fat that protects the nerves) that we don't have. Acording to where you demyelinate is where the symptoms are. At times the hallmark is vision.......(which i thought I had) But you then make more myelin and the symptoms go away...it is a loss and rebuild issue.
The meds stop this process so that there is no permenant damage.
I don't know where you live but in NYC there is a world renownd specialist. MY neice has been fighting this for over 20 years. She was a child when diagnosed......RARE. He has gotten her through a pregancy now, she works as a teacher and has a full life. SO it can be done.
Look into tysabri the newest med out there...but there are mainstream therapies that all take,.
Breathe, this is a treatable, workable and stabilizing disease. It can happen. You cannot catch this. It is her immune system eating her myelin and they need to stop that in it's tracks so no damage is done. My only hope is to go to a large teaching facility or research your physician to be sure it is the best you can do for your area.
All my best. Also neurology has a great newletter for MS....so much out there to get educated. Hugs to your family, there shouldn't be such worry for anyone during the holidays...
Nancy B