Geez Marty so much sounds like I was years back.
First, it sounds like a sleep study of you is in order. Many people have sleep apnea, where they stop breathing at points during the night. This is easily fixed when diagnosed. So bring this to your attendings attention and ask for a sleep study.
Being in pain all the time does bring down the spirit so of course you are not happy, none of wish to carry this around with us. What meds do you use to help you through? Are you diagnosed by a specialist with FM? If so click on the toolbox thread down the list here and look in it for some help from the past members and how they dealt with this.
Now to the meat and potatoes of this. My neck is the bain of my existance.....meaning it is the worst part I deal with.
I see a nuerologist with a specialty in the myofascial arm...I receive trigger point injections. There are so many muscles to the neck and shoulder area. The scalenes are the ones that choke me, I had so many docs scope me and look to see why I had the tight throat, lump in my throat....couldn't lay down...found it hard to breathe issues. When I met Dr,D she had all the answers and explained every symptom to me. I was so vindicated!!
I now have been recieving the trigger point injections every 2 weeks give or take and alot of my symptoms have settled, other keep getting exaserbated because I work and push for a life.
I bought the book FM and Chronic Myofascial Pain by a DR Devin Starlanyl on amazon.com IT is priceless as a resource to help with things. The problemm is where you are having problems it is hard to treat. Stretch and release can help a little but the neck responds well to the injections. Painful but so valuable. Massage is good too.
I wish for you to look in the toolbox, get a sleep study and seek out a doc who knows this issue. Pick up that book also, best 19.99 you can spend.
You are not going crazy. We have so many symptoms depending on the area affected for that day and it can really get you.....sometimes my feet are burning (due to leg muscles on the nerves) sometimes it is a headache(the back attachment muscles for the trapezius muscle, or mid back by the spine (paraspinals) So everyday can be different. It takes time to learn and understand you and get your toolbox in order so you can help you. Over 15 years now I am playing around with this fight.
Yes there were docs who gave me a raised eyebrow, I moved on....wrong fit. I was an ICU nurse so no one was telling me this was in my head.........now it is, now I am chemically adjusted to pain and my body has changed. I agree...but my plan of care is right on and I am not changing a thing to survive at this time.
Stay and post, share your issues and your path as this is the hardest time...in the beginning when you need the right doc. I see a sleep study though may help you feel so much better right away though. Your oxygen may be dropping during the night and that screws up your body chemistry big time...so start there. Then get that book and learn about the muscles.
Good luck, Nancy B