Hi Hun... You have come to a wonderful place for support and info... Welcome Home...
We have a wonderful place called our Toolbox... Here is the URL for it...
http://forums.webmd.com/3/fibromyalgia-exchange/tip/5It is us telling you things that help us and hopefully you can find a lot of help there...
Yes it is scary to try meds... But some meds don't have side effects for some people and you wjon't know if they can help you or if you are the side effect free person unless you give them a try... I take 2 opiates for pain... no side effects at all... That is because I don't take too much... I don't get tired ot high... The meds fight my pain not my brain... I am one of the lucky ones... they actually help too...
I don't do well on Lyrica and Cymbalta and Neurontin for I have stomach problems and it doesn't like them... I didn't see a lot of betterment either but I didn't stay on them longer then 1 to 2 months... the neurontin I was on for 9 months but my stomach was all messed up... my gasteroentologist had to start back at step 1... Had a long way to return...
Everyone is different when it comes to treatment... most of my treatment is meditation... self hypnosis... and imagery... I take morphine 3 times a day and oxycodone for breakthru pain 4 times a day if needed... I have multiple illnesses... Many chronic and many painful... All incurable... FM is just a kick in the bucket lol...
My best defense... Is acceptance of my illnesses and my life... and Myself... and a positive attitude... Which I usually accomplish thru helping others.... I am not perfect... I am human with manic depression... and a few other mental disorders... So I am in my eyes "beyond" human lol... I get down... I get depressed... I get stressed.. I come here and unload... I help when I can and I feel better...
That is what this is all about...
I hope you can find the caring you need...
Take care... Love... Jan/Dakota