Hi Readjay
Congratulations on starting to take care of yourself, and on the 35 pounds. That's terrific. Almost everyone experiences a stall in weight loss, and in reality you haven't entirely stalled, just slowed down. Keep in mind that the first 7-10 days of weight loss can be water, and so the rate of weight loss is deceiving because the water weight comes off so fast and there's so much loss. In the final analysis, if you stick with your plan you will lose weight. As for starving, you are losing 5 pounds a week. Your body is adapting to it and slowed down. It's natural that it happens, and so you need to not get discouraged and stay on plan. As I said if you stay on plan, you will continue to lose weight. At 425 pounds, 1200-1500 will cause a great deal weight loss. I encourage you to check your estimates carefully. Studies show that people can underestimate calorie intake by as much as 40%. But again, you are losing, it's just slowed down. It will pick up again.
I also suggest you get all the support and expert guidance on your diet and wt loss here at WebMD by checking out the Diet Community and the Weight Loss Clubs. Weight loss is hard on your own and can be a lonely business. The support and guidance will be extremely helpful.
You can post your diet-related questions to the Diet Community:
http://exchanges.webmd.com/diet-exchange And here's the Food and Fitness Planner (which can help you estimate calorie intake)
http://www.webmd.com/diet/food-fitness-planner/summary And the exercise calorie counter:
http://www.webmd.com/diet/healthtool-fitness-calorie-counter And here's the 100-pound Diet Club. This iwll be extremely helpful for your success.
http://exchanges.webmd.com/dieting-club-100-lbs-exchange You'll find everything you need to lose weight on all these sites. And of course, feel free to post back to the Fitness and Exercise Community any time you like. The support for exercise can be helpful too.
Congratulations again on taking care fo yourself.
Take care,
Rich