I'm female and I'll be turning 21 in July. I'm not on birth control.
I don't remember when I started masturbating, but I quit it all together about a month ago. It was becoming somewhat addicting and I decided I wanted to save myself for my boyfriend, who I'm hoping will be my future husband a couple years from now.
I used to notice that after masturbation, the next morning or maybe the next day, after going to the bathroom, I would end up with what I assumed was some kind of lining (clear mucus-looking stuff) either on the toilet tissue when I wiped or in my underwear.
Just a couple nights ago I had a dream, not erotic, but I believe I was humping something or someone. I woke up and my body shuddered. I don't remember feeling great about it, like one does after an orgasm. I just remember thinking, "that was weird" and rolling over and going back to sleep.
Initially, I thought the shuddering was from jarring awake from the dream, or from being so cold from the air-conditioning that was on full blast in the room. However, when going to the bathroom the next morning, I found the same mucus stuff in my underwear. Did I have an orgasm?
I read on another forum that teenage boys will orgasm in their sleep or experience wet dreams "every 28 days or so" if they haven't masturbated or orgasm-ed. This is supposedly when the inside linings of the testes slough off and are ejected. This doesn't happen anywhere near as much when men get older because their having sex and the lining is ejected during normal orgasms.
I wasn't sure how accurate that information was, but I was wondering if the same thing happened with girls. That would explain the mucus stuff in my underwear. But if that's true, then did I have that dream because I hadn't masturbated? And will I continue to have these dreams if I continue with not masturbating?