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An_258550 posted:
I am 18yrs old female. I am a very sensitive and innocent girl. This incident happened last year. I had an affair with my boyfriend. After few days of time he left me and went.I was very angry on him and too hurted too. I cried that whole night when he broke up with me. After few months 1 of my old neighbour came to my house when I was alone and he forcibly did an oral sex. This happened again after few days. I am totally upset that my neighbour molested me actually I treated him as my own brother.I am seriously frustrated in my life.I told my mother everything about this things. Now at present I have got a new boyfriend. I am thankfull to God that I got a guy like him. But the thing is I told him about my past and he's angry on me. But now everything is fine between us. I love him a lot and he too. But the thing is alltym I will b thinking of my past and I feel like committing suicide thinking of it. I want to teach my ex boyfriend and my neighbour a big lesson. What to do?? Please advice me that how can I forget my past, how to live happily with my guy, how to teach my ex and my neighbour a big lesson and should I consult a doctor. Please help me... plz...
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fcl responded:
I'm not sure what your bf has to be angry about. We all have a past. Forget teaching your ex a lesson - breakups are part of life and we have to learn to deal with them. OTOH, your neighbour committed oral rape ... Rape is a crime and the police should have been called. It may not be too late to do so.

I suggest that you seek a therapist to help you through these issues - you have had a lot of things happen to you in quite a short time and it isn't surprising that you are overwhelmed. You especially need professional help to get beyond these ideas of suicide. I understand that you feel you want revenge but suicide is not revenge. Please seek help.

Wishing you well,


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