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First, thanks very very much for every one here in this site, for your answer, and comments.

The things thats I was exposed by unprotected vaginal sex ( I am male) ,one time to a confirmed HIV+ women, she has a vaginal condidos, so very very unusual heavy and smelly vaginal liquide, so the risk was even higher. 2 weeks later have all the typical symptoms, yes typical, as high fever 40 C, macculopapular rash in torse, diaria with blood and muccus and rectal hemorragia, skin petachia (due to acute low palletes), mouth ulceration in the inside of cheekand petachia, white swollen tongue and yeast infection around my penis, painfull testicule, then after the symptomes went away after around 4 weeks of on set, I am left up to today with neuropathy (confirmed with EGG and EMG, blurred vision, and then a generalised lymphadenopathy, have tender painfull lymph nodes in every place in my body, groin, arm pit, neck, behind ears, elbow, chest, knee, even in face, tested neg up to 3 months, then had sex with my wife, then 2 weeks, she start to have acute HIV like symptomes with the usual symptomes, we ruled out all other causes (heavy work was donne thankfully by medical staf here in Montreal, EBV' CMV' TOXO, rubella, auto immune, rhumato, lupus, cancer..etc all negative ), we both tested neg up to 8 months by 4th generation tests, I tested at 6 months by DNA-PCR, RNA-PCR and one viral load, all negative. but still concerned over a low WBC, neuropathy of both of us, and specially the persistant generalised lymph sweelling till to day 10 months, doc dont know what to think, but logically, by the exposure to HIV + person, typical symptomes, in both me and wife. I am 99.9999 % that its HIV infection, that may or may not show later. so, my docs advice to continue testing, will have 10 months tests tommorow, I Know almost without a doubt that we are infected, because as every single cause was ruled out, after a 8 months of medicales tests, nothing found, but declining umminity, neutrophil and WBC, just at the on set of the symptomes, a doc who tested me at 3 weeks, when he sow the rash, I think was so positive that I was Infeted.so he run a CD4 CD8 stright away , as a base line, as he expected a positive result one or two weeks later, thats did not happen.
now at 8 months my CD4 lowered from 920 to around 340, only in about 6 months. So that why because of all those parameter : exposition unprotected to HIV+ who has Very very heavy vaginal liquide and yeast infection, my typical symptomes (even if people say there is no typical, but the HIV Doc I sow first when the onset of my symptomes. who treated HIV person since 1982, fist time he sow the rash on my bosy said : get test HIV, and had run the test for CD4 CD8 as base line, as he was positive that I was infected !). my wife acute symptomes and neuropathy, and blood work that show acute immune defeciency compatible with the acute infection. I Know that I and sadly my wife are infected, but hope to show in test before i had even lower CD4 and aids. as its logical that no treatment will be offer against HIV- till test show up in test, but I fear That will be late as My CD4 are now in treatment starting range, by guidline here in canada.

Thanks for reading this long post, but that what it need to explain my cases.