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    I am sooooo scared
    Ilovemylife90 posted:
    I had unproctected sex in 4 weeks went to the clinic to get tested and it came out negative but I been having some weird symptoms my throat feels like I swallow a bunch of pills ,white tongue,diarrhea ,headache,very I am so scared I have HIV look into HIV symptoms and it match with mines symptoms
    georgiagail responded:
    Get retested at the 90 day mark.

    The symptoms of white tongue you have been reading about on the internet involves issues that are seen at the end stage of the disease; i.e., when HIV has moved into AIDS. In an untreated individual this takes about a decade to develop. Oral thrush is a very painful condition that makes swallowing anything almost impossible. It is more than just a white tongue.

    A test done 4 weeks after a possible exposure, while not 100 percent accurate, is pretty darn close. It is estimated that 95% of newly infected individuals will have enough antibodies present at the 1 month testing mark to be picked up by current testing methods. Therefore, it is unlikely that your 3 month test result will be any different than your 1 month result.

    Keep in mind that being "so scared" you have HIV will often cause headache, stomach aches, diarrhea and dry mouth; these are all symptoms of stress and worry, not HIV.

    Good luck!

    Ilovemylife90 replied to georgiagail's response:
    Thank you so much Gail I mean the guy I did it with says to me the his clean I just very scared because hads sleep with other girls and they work with escorting I am get the test done again next month.....

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