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    juliepeck posted:
    Hello,Im Julie & Me & my Husband have been trying to get preg. for 4 months now. Soon to be 5 if I dont get a BFP this week. Im 28 years old & I have 4 children...3 Here with me & 1 in Heaven. We loss Him due to SIDS last year on April 1st,2011. Through this last year it has been so very hard on all of us & very stressful. And,Just when we think we want to try to start TTCing,I find out I haave an Auto Immunie problem & that most likely the stress has brought it on.It affects the areas like the eyes,Mouth,Down there & makes it hard to produce those body fluids & So,Now we are just waitting to get in to see the specialist.I would like to know what I can do to help with this?? Im chartting & BBTing & using the Clue Blue OPK's...But,For the fluids part what can I do?? I have looked up so much & one said to use Lubes & others said not to do that(Not even the water base kind). To use Canole Oil or something like that!! I found a product called Pre-seed that is used down there & Fertility CM that is something that you take.But,I just dont know what would be the best option. Can someone Help me,Please??
    mrs62610 responded:
    My husband and I use Preseed and really like it. There is also something called conceive plus which I think is a little cheaper. These are said to be sperm-friendly and are supposed to mimic our own fluids. Everyone I have talked to says they are perfectly fine to use.
    Me-24 DH-37 TTC 1 for 11 months. Start 3rd round of Clomid 3/8/12.
    juliepeck replied to mrs62610's response:
    Thank You!! I will give that a try!! Hopefully this will help me & work for us!!
    mrs62610 replied to juliepeck's response:
    You're welcome! I hope you come back and keep me posted!
    Me-24 DH-37 TTC 1 for 11 months. Start 3rd round of Clomid 3/8/12.

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