Wouldn't it be great if, whenever you wanted for as long as you wanted, you could just take a special pill every day and know that you would be super fertile? Unfortunately, this is not the case. But there are steps you can take to better prepare yourself for conception.
Live a Healthy Lifestyle
Sometimes, women who are overweight may not ovulate regularly. In these cases, exercising and maintaining a healthy diet for weight loss can sometimes lead to ovulation. This would, in turn, boost your fertility. For women who are at a healthy weight, healthy eating and exercise -- exercise that is not extreme, that is -- certainly couldn't hurt.
Quit Smoking
Smoking is terrible for you. Among so many things, it negatively affects your fertility and leads to higher miscarriage rates in women who do become pregnant.
Take Your Vitamins
I definitely recommend starting prenatal vitamins -- or at least a good multivitamin -- immediately upon deciding to try to conceive. Make sure that whatever you're taking has plenty of folic acid in it. Some reproductive specialists believe that vitamin D deficiency may be linked to infertility. There should be sufficient amounts of both folic acid and vitamin D in any good prenatal vitamin.
For men, there are multivitamins you can take that contain a blend of vitamins, including CoQ10, which are supposed to help improve sperm count and motility.
Have Frequent Intercourse
There really is no need to know the exact day you ovulate. Just relax and make sure you're having intercourse daily, or at least every other day while you're trying.
If you have regular periods, you are most likely ovulating. Typically, we are taught that a woman's "fertile window" includes the day she starts to ovulate, plus the 5 days prior. The likelihood that sex will lead to pregnancy is greatest within the last 2 to 3 days before ovulation. In general, a woman will ovulate about 14 days before the onset of menstrual bleeding. So, if you have 28-day cycles, I recommend having frequent sex from around day 10 to day 20 of your cycle.