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I remember from a very young age (maybe 4 or 5) being very curious about the adult male body as well as the adult female body. I can't say I was attracted to either, necessarily -- I was just curious about what people looked like under their clothes. When I was about 10 or 11 years old, I discovered I could look through the keyhole in the old-style doorknob of our bathroom door to see into the room. That night when my father came home from work and my mother was downstairs, he went upstairs to take a shower and I snuck over to the door and looked through the keyhole. He was still in his underwear, but when he pulled them off, I was surprised that I was actually seeing my dad's penis! It was real! (haha!) And when he finished his shower, I watched him get out and dry off and get dressed, all in the bathroom. I watched him do this routine many times, both in this house and in the next house we moved into, until I was about 14 or 15 years old.
I'm not sure why I was so curious, but by the time I reached my mid teens, I was watching porn online a lot and lost interest in seeing my dad naked. But when I was 19 or so, I had stopped watching porn (and was glad I gave it up) and was once again curious about seeing other guys nude. This interest never really went anywhere and I wasn't going to start spying on my dad again, but a few years later I joined a gym and saw guys naked in the locker room all the time. That's not why I joined the gym, of course, but it was an interesting aspect for me.
Now, after seeing my dad naked (which he still doesn't know about) and having experienced the gym locker room, I'm not as curious about male nudity as I used to be. I'm straight and happily married and male nudity holds no sexual interest for me, but somehow being nude with another man, especially if he is my friend, means something to me. It's something important, I think, as if by being nude together he's telling me that he is open to me, he trusts me, and wants us to know each other better and be comfortable and confident with each other.
Now here are my questions:
1. What does male nudity mean to you?
2. Were you curious about adult male nudity when you were a kid?
3. Whether yes or no, why do you think so?
4. How can we help other boys and men become more comfortable with male nudity in a proper context and stop always seeing it as something sexual or gay?
Thank you for your responses!
i agree with how important male nudity is to you, i think that it is a major bonding thing that i have missed out on. i dont know why i was so curious about male nudity, but i assume it is because my dad was so private, and i never had a brother. the way i am going to help my future sons to be more comfortable about this subject is to talk with them as much as i can about anything sexual that concerns them, and be more open with changing and nudity. i feel like society has imprinted on me my thinking of male to male nudity being gay, and i cant shake it no matter how much i want to. it sucks that american culture thinks that way, i feel it has ruined my generation, and current ones by making them too sensitive and self conscious about these type of matters
"calvin"
2. Was curious from birth I think. Used to get naked every chance I could, with or without company.
3. Why? no real idea - early horniness?
4. Nudist clubs for families are good. Start being naked with your kids from birth. But understand that as a kid matures and is impacted by our non-open society, they are going to feel more and more inhibited around YOU. Respect that and give them space but don't alter your approach to life. If you walk from the bathroom to your bedroom nude - go ahead and keep doing it. If they are not comfortable, they will be the ones to turn away or not come out until you are passed.
Diamonds are rocks, and so are crystals, but we put a high price on diamonds and there for people want the most costly rock. As for me, I dont like diamonds. they are over valued.
But I to once looked through the key hole of my older brother when he took a shower. I had to see what I was not aloud to see. and after a few times it was no big deal. Yep, I even watched him stroke one off a few times. He dont know it. But its no big deal, we all jack off..
1. What does male nudity mean to you?
Being comfortible in your own skin. I am please with my body. I need some improvements therefore I spend time at the gym. I can appreciate another male structuring his abs.
2. Were you curious about adult male nudity when you were a kid?
Yes, but was open nudeness with my family and friends
3. Whether yes or no, why do you think so?
I wanted to see how my body would change in the stages from a boy to man
4. How can we help other boys and men become more comfortable with male nudity in a proper context and stop always seeing it as something sexual or gay?
The Hetrosexual males can not continue to become like females in thinks nudity in proper content is sexual. WE can not control the thought of a person about a male's or female body. The male can understand the bonding of a team, group, family, etc .If a male is able to share time stripped nude in the gym / locker rooms , pools , etc. Understand we are differant
but we make up the whole team. Males we can not let the females change the way males think about males.
Since the begin of time there has been nude male bonding.
The female should not make us be a embrassed by our gential. With less males being fathers to there sons. The mother has had to take the role, therefore differant informations is being given. In the past the mothers advise their sons to follow the foot prints of their grandfathers, fathers, and uncles. Those foot prints are not there.
anyway, respond to this if you're still interested and then we can figure a way to trade emails!
thanks, man
calvin
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