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I caught my son
fatherof2sons posted:
My son was recently married and I was staying at his home while i visited him and his new bride. Well one of the evenings i was their, i woke up and needed a glass of water from downstairs. Its around midnight, and i go downstairs and have to go through the livingroom, and i walked into an orgy that any porno would die for. All my sons friends are their with their girl friends, and he is their with his new wife. I walked in, and im almost completly deaf so i didnt hear anything till i was half way into the room, then nudity caught the corner of my eye, and i looked at my son, and he just looks back, and keeps going! So i just went back to my bedroom and was thinking... and then of course i got hard after watching that! But i never knew my son was like that. We never talked about sex or our sex lifes before... How do i talk to him about this?
12 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:I caught my sonMy son was recently married and I was staying at his home while i visited him and his new bride. Well one of the evenings i was their, i woke up and needed a glass of water from downstairs. Its around midnight, and i go downstairs and have to go through the livingroom, and i walked into an orgy that any porno would die for. All my sons friends are their with their girl friends, and he is their with his new wife. I walked in, and im almost completly deaf so i didnt hear anything till i was half way into the room, then nudity caught the corner of my eye, and i looked at my son, and he just looks back, and keeps going! So i just went back to my bedroom and was thinking... and then of course i got hard after watching that! But i never knew my son was like that. We never talked about sex or our sex lifes before... How do i talk to him about this?
chrisnv responded:
well remember you are at HIS house !!he must have been ok with you looking because he would have probably freaked out ...and said something at the time.he said nothing to you when he saw you..if i was you and i ran into that again i would have asked him if you could join in...what would you have to lose ??????you really have no business saying any thing HIS HOUSE !!!
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonwell remember you are at HIS house !!he must have been ok with you looking because he would have probably freaked out ...and said something at the time.he said nothing to you when he saw you..if i was you and i ran into that again i would have asked him if you could join in...what would you have to lose ??????you really have no business saying any thing HIS HOUSE !!!
fatherof2sons replied to chrisnv's response:
Thanks, but I never would of expected my son to participate in anything like that. Although I surely wouldnt mind if he did, or even if I had. I have been just wanting to talk to him about it.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonThanks, but I never would of expected my son to participate in anything like that. Although I surely wouldnt mind if he did, or even if I had. I have been just wanting to talk to him about it.
gq12 replied to fatherof2sons's response:
I find it hard to believe that your son would have such an event while you are staying at his house!! It is his place, but it is also disrespectful to you that he has you stay over then does this without letting you know so you don't get embarrassed like you did. You have every right to say something even if it is not your house because you were a guest there and you are his father.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonI find it hard to believe that your son would have such an event while you are staying at his house!! It is his place, but it is also disrespectful to you that he has you stay over then does this without letting you know so you don't get embarrassed like you did. You have every right to say something even if it is not your house because you were a guest there and you are his father.
zoom1969 responded:
Wow! I think that is one of those situations that is both disturbing and arousing at the same time! I think arousing because you stumbled onto an actual orgy taking place. That is pretty hot that this group of friends are all comfortable doing this with each other. I guess the disturbing part would be that it was your son that was one of the participants and you saw him in action! Sounds like he was ok with you seeing him perform. I agree with GQ 12 that it is odd that they would be doing this while you were staying in the home unless it was one of those situations where there was drinking or other things going on and it wasn't planned. Wonder what was going through your son's head? Did he think you would turn around and leave the room or maybe in a way he gave you a little nod letting you know it would be ok to join in. I would probably have felt awkward too and left the room because I would be so caught off guard. Everyone has different opinions on this one but I wouldn't talk to him about it. If he brings it up sometime it would be a great opportunity to have a really good talk with him. Even though you saw him performing and he was ok with it sometimes just talking about sexual situations can be awkward and uncomfortable.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonWow! I think that is one of those situations that is both disturbing and arousing at the same time! I think arousing because you stumbled onto an actual orgy taking place. That is pretty hot that this group of friends are all comfortable doing this with each other. I guess the disturbing part would be that it was your son that was one of the participants and you saw him in action! Sounds like he was ok with you seeing him perform. I agree with GQ 12 that it is odd that they would be doing this while you were staying in the home unless it was one of those situations where there was drinking or other things going on and it wasn't planned. Wonder what was going through your son's head? Did he think you would turn around and leave the room or maybe in a way he gave you a little nod letting you know it would be ok to join in. I would probably have felt awkward too and left the room because I would be so caught off guard. Everyone has different opinions on this one but I wouldn't talk to him about it. If he brings it up sometime it would be a great opportunity to have a really good talk with him. Even though you saw him performing and he was ok with it sometimes just talking about sexual situations can be awkward and uncomfortable.
T me it seems like he almost wanted you to join in. If he looks at you, and turns back and continues I would take that as an invite.Have you talked about this since?
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonT me it seems like he almost wanted you to join in. If he looks at you, and turns back and continues I would take that as an invite.Have you talked about this since?
Reading this old thread I had two questions. How many of you would have stop in the middle of intercources with your wife?
It's the son's house. He and his bride should be able to have a group of friends and the father as quests at the same time. I agree with Z-69. The orgies at my father's house and the other that I've have enjoyed. The parties was a normal invitation for a group friends. They were not planned to end as orgy. Have any of you been to a planned orgy?
The must awkward and uncomfortable I have ever been. A few months after my marriage. I was invited to a friend's party.
My new father-in-law and his son was visting for a four day weekend. I saw it as free dinner for us and accepted. But when the sex started. I offer to leave; they declined. They both enjoy the free meal and sex.
It's the son's house. He and his bride should be able to have a group of friends and the father as quests at the same time. I agree with Z-69. The orgies at my father's house and the other that I've have enjoyed. The parties was a normal invitation for a group friends. They were not planned to end as orgy. Have any of you been to a planned orgy?
The must awkward and uncomfortable I have ever been. A few months after my marriage. I was invited to a friend's party.
My new father-in-law and his son was visting for a four day weekend. I saw it as free dinner for us and accepted. But when the sex started. I offer to leave; they declined. They both enjoy the free meal and sex.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonReading this old thread I had two questions. How many of you would have stop in the middle of intercources with your wife?<br />It's the son's house. He and his bride should be able to have a group of friends and the father as quests at the same time. I agree with Z-69. The orgies at my father's house and the other that I've have enjoyed. The parties was a normal invitation for a group friends. They were not planned to end as orgy. Have any of you been to a planned orgy?<br />The must awkward and uncomfortable I have ever been. A few months after my marriage. I was invited to a friend's party.<br />My new father-in-law and his son was visting for a four day weekend. I saw it as free dinner for us and accepted. But when the sex started. I offer to leave; they declined. They both enjoy the free meal and sex.
jmgg5000 responded:
did you get much of a view of them at all? I would of been like its all good lol
Report This| Share this:I caught my sondid you get much of a view of them at all? I would of been like its all good lol
I was only enjoying the view. The coolest thang was watching father and son. Do a sandwich with a young lady. Pop's first time to do it in the anus. But not his last. I heard mom the next night hollering in upstair bed." Get you dick out of my butt".Pop had the staying power he finished with the host step mother begging for more. It was also his 1st time doing a three way. But not the son.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonI was only enjoying the view. The coolest thang was watching father and son. Do a sandwich with a young lady. Pop's first time to do it in the anus. But not his last. I heard mom the next night hollering in upstair bed." Get you dick out of my butt".Pop had the staying power he finished with the host step mother begging for more. It was also his 1st time doing a three way. But not the son.
yea one time my wife and i were staying at my parents place and it was late we though everyone was sleeping so we made love in the living room. later the next day my dad said he snuck down the stairs to see what was going on and he said he could see us both nude making love he said he got an erection seeing my wifes breasts and said he hoped it was ok and i am like ya no big deal. he said he went back up and make out with my mom afterwards so hey sex is great.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonyea one time my wife and i were staying at my parents place and it was late we though everyone was sleeping so we made love in the living room. later the next day my dad said he snuck down the stairs to see what was going on and he said he could see us both nude making love he said he got an erection seeing my wifes breasts and said he hoped it was ok and i am like ya no big deal. he said he went back up and make out with my mom afterwards so hey sex is great.
jd1000 responded:
my dad caught me and my wife making love once. we were staying at the house one weekend for some reason and the sofa in living room turned into a bed and we used it to sleep well as everyone was sleeping my wife and i started to make love and then my dad turned the kitchen light on to get a late night drink and the light was bright enough he looked into the living room and caught us in the middle of making love. he said oh sorry did not know he got a full view of my wifes bare breasts and we were ok with it just little ockward is all but hey i caught my dad and mom making out once so we where even i guess lol
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonmy dad caught me and my wife making love once. we were staying at the house one weekend for some reason and the sofa in living room turned into a bed and we used it to sleep well as everyone was sleeping my wife and i started to make love and then my dad turned the kitchen light on to get a late night drink and the light was bright enough he looked into the living room and caught us in the middle of making love. he said oh sorry did not know he got a full view of my wifes bare breasts and we were ok with it just little ockward is all but hey i caught my dad and mom making out once so we where even i guess lol
When you share a home. Its a normal to see a couple having sex. I have seen my father and his girlfriends in a number of differant sexual acts. He also has seen me with different females. Also later my wife enjoying sex. Most of the times this is a private time. But I like my father; enjoy wanting to do
IT. When it happens on the dining table, living room floor, in the pool, on the car, or in front of the fireplace in the family room. We know everyone is Doing IT. Everyone does not select to be behind locked doors. Just Smile and find someone you can LOVE.
IT. When it happens on the dining table, living room floor, in the pool, on the car, or in front of the fireplace in the family room. We know everyone is Doing IT. Everyone does not select to be behind locked doors. Just Smile and find someone you can LOVE.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonWhen you share a home. Its a normal to see a couple having sex. I have seen my father and his girlfriends in a number of differant sexual acts. He also has seen me with different females. Also later my wife enjoying sex. Most of the times this is a private time. But I like my father; enjoy wanting to do <br />IT. When it happens on the dining table, living room floor, in the pool, on the car, or in front of the fireplace in the family room. We know everyone is Doing IT. Everyone does not select to be behind locked doors. Just Smile and find someone you can LOVE.
yea my parents always left bedroom door open even when having sex so sometimes i would get up and go by the door and look in and i would see them both naked and making love i rather see them make love then fight. and i know our sons have seen us making love i mean just last night my wife and i were making love and i look over and my 10 year old son was by the door watching we could of told him to leave but we just let him watch. he will learn the best by seeing us i feel. and we are not ashamed of our body. when my dad caught us making love yes he saw my wifes boobs but seeing her boobs is no big deal i feel.
Report This| Share this:I caught my sonyea my parents always left bedroom door open even when having sex so sometimes i would get up and go by the door and look in and i would see them both naked and making love i rather see them make love then fight. and i know our sons have seen us making love i mean just last night my wife and i were making love and i look over and my 10 year old son was by the door watching we could of told him to leave but we just let him watch. he will learn the best by seeing us i feel. and we are not ashamed of our body. when my dad caught us making love yes he saw my wifes boobs but seeing her boobs is no big deal i feel.
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