I remember a post some time back (I can't remember which forum), so I was wondering if any of you knew which post I was talking about.
I would like to find it, because it was quite an inspiring story where a father details his openness with his son, leading both of them to be secure in their masculinity. I'll tell as much as I remember to see if any of you know where it is. (Google search failed me).
As far as I remember, a father and his son (somewhere between 17 and college age if I recall) went to the son's gym together. After working out, the father was going to get in one of the two hot tubs in te locker room. As he did, the son motioned him to get in the other, and he soon learned why. The jets were located in such a way that they found pleasurable. When it was time to shower, the son told the father to come, but the father declined, saying that he would need a minute to "calm down". His son said "no, don't worry about it. Everyone is cool here at my gym." and they both headed to the showers half-mast, no worries.
That's all that my memory recalls...can anyone post a link to this post (like I said I can't remember what website it was on). I would like to find it, as it was a great inspiring story of a father-son open relationship.