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In any case it's important not to depend on just one way to masturbate. Find a variety of ways to get yourself off! You may be surprised as what you find.
But I would try to branch out and do other things. For example, while lying on your back reach down with the hand you don't use for writing. Gently stroke your penis with that hand while gently rubbing another part of your body with your dominant hand -- rub your shoulders, your thighs, your face -- anywhere. Just remember always to keep one hand somewhere else. Take time to see how different areas feel and what you can do to make yourself feel good. That could be helpful for you later.
Good luck -- if you like, let me know how it works out.
First, there's nothing wrong with your session taking longer; with a partner you're not going to want to get it all over with quickly. And sometimes when you're going solo there's nothing like a long extended period of self-appreciation. When you do get off -- shoot your load, or whatever you might call it -- you will make a number of muscular contractions in your lower abdomen near your penis. That helps get the semen out and yes, it may come out and still leave a little upstream to come out a moment later. A pleasant way to finish up masturbating after you come can be to 'milk' your penis -- make an 'OK' with your thumb and forefinger and grab the base of your penis. Then slide the OK up to the end and let go. Do that a few times and you should be cleared out of the remaining semen and good to go!
One thought I had after my posting yesterday: in addition to making the OK and 'milking' yourself after you come, you might want to do a few strong pelvic contractions to move along any semen which still might be remaining further upstream. The pelvic contraction -- or kegel as it is sometimes called -- is the same contraction you make when you stop urination in mid flow and then let it start again. Doing kegels is an exercise which you can do with no one else being able to know you're doing it and it can help you have better performance control down the road. You could look kegels up on this website or elsewhere to get more information.
Good luck as you head off to college next year!
While our genitals are delicate and do require care I wouldn't worry about your fluids sticking. They're pretty slippery. I'm not a medical type so can't comment in detail but I'm pretty sure that urinating after ejaculation -- once the 'switches' are turned -- will clear out anything remaining.
Make sure you continue to enjoy this part of increased maturity responsibly. There are no tests, and it's fun!
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